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danny87786
January 20th, 2016, 01:55 PM
Hello people
So I want to start off by saying first that I graduated from high school in June ands I now attend an adult education center for classes I need to take before I go to college. There is the is friend of mine I had back in high school, to protect privacy let's call her Elisa. During high school we were pretty close, we talked every class we had we would talk on the phone on weekend, she invited me to her sweet 16 and everything that comes with being good friend! As you can imagine life after high school everyone goes their own way. I have spoke to Elisa sometimes on the phone since the summer I always ask her if we want to hang out and she says she's always busy all the time but then I see her on twitter and snap chat always doing something else. I have people telling me that they make last minute plans with her but when I ask her it's always no. I always see her on twitter tweeting about going out with other people and she always says she has no time for me. I really makes me feel very stupid. It took me a month and a half to visit her at her college because she says she's always busy doing work but then again I see her on twitter doing something else. Elisa always seems like she has time for other things expect for me. I know I might sound selfish but I don't find this normal because when we are on the phone sometimes she tells me that she would love to hang out with me but she always has time for someone else. Sorry to make this long guys I know I hate reading too but I just really want to know what to do. P.s in July she's throwing a house party to celebrate her 18th birthday if it wasn't for that I would just stop talking to her all together.

ImagineRepublicCity
January 22nd, 2016, 02:16 PM
If I was in your situation, I would probably get whinge about it and then confront them, especially because you don't even know why she's not talking to you. People are just weird, it's possible she just wants to hang out with other people, and it's possible she doesn't think of you as much of a great friend as before (as high school kinda forces people to become friends). You should really just talk to her about it if it's troubling you, because it really helps sometimes, and if she just doesn't seem that interested in being your friend, then it's possible that it's time to just make her a memory in your past. :/

I know it's tough if the latter happens, but I do hope it goes well for you.