Confused :(

[ECSTASY]

Why do some people are too confusing about their sexuality?
I mean , my friend whom is my secret crush always talks about girls and he is currently trying to get friends with a girl . But whenever me and out mutual friend go to his house he keeps doing gay things even though he knows that I'm gay . Like he tries touching me or even my private parts .
Last night, I was spending the whole night with him and our friend .
When we were going to sleep , he slept by me and he started to touch my body till I get hard . As I'm a shy guy and I have a strong crush on him, I didn't want to ruin our friendship . I didn't really know what to do . So I just tried sleeping and letting him continue . Even though he noticed that I'm hard he kept continuing and he tried to make me cum by touching it on my shorts but i just controlled myself as it wasn't the right situation , Till he stopped and slept .
I asked him if he is bisexual that day and he replied "I guess I'm %95 attracted to girls and 5% attracted to guys".
From one side , It's really weird for a straight guy to do such things with a gay guy .
And from the other side , He keeps talking about girls .
And that's really confusing . I don't really know what to do .
I really like him but I'm afraid of telling that to him cause I don't want him to stay away from me .
It has been a month or two that I can't focus on anything at all and I keep thinking about such things .
Any advice? :/

[northy]

Sounds like he's just curious. I think this is one of those situations where it either works out or spectacularly fails. Give it a go though, he knows that you're gay and obviously was a bit interested in you.

[ECSTASY]

Sounds like he's just curious. I think this is one of those situations where it either works out or spectacularly fails. Give it a go though, he knows that you're gay and obviously was a bit interested in you.

It can not be curiousness . I guess he have had experience once, when he was younger .
This is what he said . The weird part is that he keeps saying "cause I make such jokes and do such things , that doesn't define me as a gay" .

[Jinglebottom]

Maybe he was just teasing you to see your reaction?

[ECSTASY]

Maybe he was just teasing you to see your reaction?

hmm what do you mean by teasing? It's not his first time doing that. I have even tried to take his hand away but he said "Why do you reject my hand? Don't be like girls" x_x
I don't think that he is trying to tease me.

[UNKNOWN8198]

It can not be curiousness . I guess he have had experience once, when he was younger .
This is what he said . The weird part is that he keeps saying "cause I make such jokes and do such things , that doesn't define me as a gay" .

Just for context, was he saying that about himself or about you?? Had to tell from the sentence.

On the original question, it's difficult to tell. He could just be experimenting, and feels 'safer' doing it with you because you're gay. He may also suspect you have a crush on him and may be intrigued by that, even slightly confused, and is just exploring that to see if it's something he wants. Of course he could also just be doing it because he's a hormonal teenager, and if he is 'straight' he probably feels more comfortable experimenting with people he's not going to be attracted to. I'd take a shot and tell him, but only if you're happy with the results that could give, and bear in mind the most likely outcome given your description is that he wont be interested. I don't know how your relationship would react to that.

[Jinglebottom]

hmm what do you mean by teasing? It's not his first time doing that. I have even tried to take his hand away but he said "Why do you reject my hand? Don't be like girls" x_x
I don't think that he is trying to tease me.
Idk, honestly. For example, I'm not out to anyone yet, but the guys who suspect me of being a homosexual sometimes try to hold my hand and act flirtatious around me thinking I'll like it. When in reality, I absolutely hate it. I'm not sure if that's the case with you, but I view those guys as trying to mess with me because they see me as vulnerable. That's what I mean by "teasing".

[ECSTASY]

Just for context, was he saying that about himself or about you?? Had to tell from the sentence.

On the original question, it's difficult to tell. He could just be experimenting, and feels 'safer' doing it with you because you're gay. He may also suspect you have a crush on him and may be intrigued by that, even slightly confused, and is just exploring that to see if it's something he wants. Of course he could also just be doing it because he's a hormonal teenager, and if he is 'straight' he probably feels more comfortable experimenting with people he's not going to be attracted to. I'd take a shot and tell him, but only if you're happy with the results that could give, and bear in mind the most likely outcome given your description is that he wont be interested. I don't know how your relationship would react to that.

He says that about himself .
I guess waiting and letting him decide himself is the best option .
But at least , I wish I could forget him :/

[ECSTASY]

Idk, honestly. For example, I'm not out to anyone yet, but the guys who suspect me of being a homosexual sometimes try to hold my hand and act flirtatious around me thinking I'll like it. When in reality, I absolutely hate it. I'm not sure if that's the case with you, but I view those guys as trying to mess with me because they see me as vulnerable. That's what I mean by "teasing".

I don't think that he is such guy :) . He actually respects me.