My Identity Crisis

[hfmuk]

About a year ago, accepted things to myself realizing i was gay, and finally on bonfire night came out to my close friends, which was a big thing after years of "straight acting" trying desperately to be something I wasn't. Now I'm out to my friends and family, and happy to tell anyone who asks, but I'm still stuck in my ways, wearing clothes I don't like, and ignoring my hair, stuck in a character that just isn't me. I need to be free, but I'm almost more scared of opening up and being myself than when I first came out, and I just cant understand to myself why. I know this seems ridiculous and I don't know if this is something I can get any advice for, just needed to get it out.

Thanks for reading!
Harry

[Dalton_Holt]

Just do whatever the hell you want. Dress however you like, speak however you want, say whatever you want. Fuck social norms.

[Bluebyrd]

I'm from Liverpool too! :D Just do what you feel like and don't worry about what other people will think. If they know you're gay and accept it then surely they'll have no problem with how you dress or keep yourself.