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Kiogaout
January 16th, 2016, 10:18 PM
I was just wondering if being alone most of my time is normal, i sometimes hang out with some of my friends , but most of my time I spend it alone, should I care with i am not so sociable like others and about the fact that I don't have any close friends
Zachary G
January 18th, 2016, 01:48 PM
Does it bother you that you are alone most of the time and dont have any close friends?
If it doesnt bother you and you dont give it a second thought, then I wouldnt be so concerned about it and just enjoy your time the ways you do best.
TeenPortland
January 22nd, 2016, 04:08 AM
It's normal, just means you aren't in a group that likes to be in constant face to face comtact
ImagineRepublicCity
January 22nd, 2016, 02:11 PM
It's pretty normal, because that's totally me as well, but you should take my advice:
If you go to high school, make friends with someone. You don't have to be the bestest of friends, nor do you have to talk to them after high school, but it is honestly the worst feeling being alone in a crowded place. I've accidentally drifted a lot from my high school friends and I regret that, because it's really hard for me to become half decent friends with them again.
Also, I love being alone, but remind yourself that knowing people and having connections will always help you in life.
sabbi
January 23rd, 2016, 04:01 AM
I was just wondering if being alone most of my time is normal, i sometimes hang out with some of my friends , but most of my time I spend it alone, should I care with i am not so sociable like others and about the fact that I don't have any close friends
It seems normal enough to me. You've got friends you hang about with its your choice for how often you want to see them. It's nice to have time on your own and not feel pressurized into joining in with everything they do
amgb
January 23rd, 2016, 11:16 AM
It sounds like you're more introverted than sociable, and that's okay. Nothing wrong with it at all. I love the pleasure and peace of my own company at the same time that I value maintaining meaningful connections with friends, but I'm more of the keep-to-myself type. In fact, it's great if being by yourself sometimes makes you feel at your best and you're still up to having fun with friends every once in a while. I know it can be worrying seeing people around you who socialise alot and have many close friends, but everyone's different. You might end up making a best friend someday who you can feel really close with, you might grow to be a more outgoing person. It's important not to spend all of your time alone though, especially if it starts to affect you in a negative way. It's good to have alone time and space, but remember to keep your friends in reach so you're not completely isolating yourself~
everlong
January 23rd, 2016, 11:39 AM
A lot of people are like that, it's not a bad thing.
gemma 2000
January 24th, 2016, 09:15 PM
If you like your own company then it ok
danny87786
January 29th, 2016, 11:28 AM
yess of course it is okay why wouldn't it be. I'm a social butterfly I always like talking to people and my teachers at school always say you're always talking all the time. I used to get in trouble for it of course but now they don't care. But the thing is that there's 24 hours in a day it's bound to happen that you won't be with people for the whole day. It's nice to be alone and breath for once. There's' nothing wrong with that. I know in my case I don't like eating with people, I want to enjoy my food and I don't take the bus with people.
Vanilla Cupcake
January 30th, 2016, 07:57 PM
I quite enjoy being alone. Although if we had no internet I would literally go crazy. Sad but true lol.
AutumnWinds
February 1st, 2016, 03:54 AM
I quite enjoy being alone. Although if we had no internet I would literally go crazy. Sad but true lol.
i'm the same way ;)
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