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JacobIN
February 9th, 2014, 08:31 PM
I have been talking to this guy on TeamSpeak3 for over a year. We have played a TON of games together. He recently broke up with his boyfriend, and we started talking even more. Know, I don't know if he just wants to be friends, or if he wants more than that. Also, I really don't know if i am necessarily "gay" but I do want more than a friendship with him. Not like having sex, but a very close relationship. If it helps, we both live in Indiana about 4-5 hours away. He lives in a larger city, and me in a small town off I-69. Just some advice would be nice.

MechaSniper
February 9th, 2014, 08:39 PM
Ask him if he wants more of a relationship

JacobIN
February 9th, 2014, 09:51 PM
Ask him if he wants more of a relationship

Might be a good time to mention im kinda scared if I do that I may rush him, he still isn't really completely over the breakup.

Living For Love
February 10th, 2014, 09:37 AM
Give him some time, don't rush things. Maybe you should first strengthen your friendship, and then ask him if he wants to meet in real life. Then, you could slowly try to hint that it would be nice if you two had a really close relationship, but do it gradually, so that he understands that you want to be a little bit more than only friends but without seem creepy.

JamesSuperBoy
February 10th, 2014, 10:13 AM
One question might be - can you easily meet up and how often

Maybe he is chatting more because of the break up but as ever with online things take care -