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Shark98
January 15th, 2016, 06:07 PM
It's been getting to me lately how none of my friends tend to care that greatly for me. I feel like they're just school friends since they seldom invite me to hangout/party. Even just the other day, one of my friends invited two friends next to me to hangout, but not me. Stuff like that happens pretty often. I don't know if it's my fault or they just take me for granted. I used to be a really shy kid 3 years ago, and I guess it could be that I'm still socially inept or something like that. It definitely has something to do with the image they have of me. It infuriates me how I want to hangout with them, but they seem to be indifferent to me when it comes to hanging out. If I want to do something with them, I have to ask to be invited. They seem to be good friends during school, but outside of school, I feel like they could forget me if I didn't talk to them first. I don't know what to do about the whole situation.

Sailor Mars
January 15th, 2016, 06:44 PM
Simply put, if your friends don't appreciate you, than they aren't your friends. Regardless of your past image, they should still want to hang out with you and invite you to stuff. Maybe talk to them about it? saying how you want to be invited to stuff and how you want to just chill?