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zacharywest04
January 13th, 2016, 09:30 PM
For the longest time I've had a crush on this girl in my class but when I finally decided to ask her out, she said no. We talked all the time and we always had a great time together but I just don't think she sees me in that way. Since she said no, I've been trying to move on and have since grown close with another girl in my class. I also really like this girl but she just isn't as easy to talk to as the girl who rejected me. We have coversations everyday and laugh together and say hi to each other but sometimes it feels like there's just nothing else to talk about and it becomes awkward silence. I never had this problem with the first girl because we have so much in common. I'm just worried that I don't have quite enough in common with this new girl to sustain a relationship with her, and am wondering if I should pursue her and if I do, how can I make sure to always have something to talk about with her. This is also my first post and I am pretty inexperienced when it come to dating.

SillyShyGuy
January 15th, 2016, 02:33 PM
Haha you never know until you spend more time with girls. Some girls are hard to talk to but want to spend time with you outside of school. Other girls only want to talk during school. Just ask girls to hang out with you outside of school and see. Some will say yes and some will say no. Just ask lots of questions to make it about her and not about her. Ask her about her favorite color, music, food, movies, animals, or anything.

Vanilla Cupcake
January 15th, 2016, 07:19 PM
It can be hard to find things to talk about especially if you both don't know what to say.
Ask her questions, find out what her interests are and you might end up liking similar things.