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Vanilla Cupcake
January 13th, 2016, 08:06 PM
So I was at the pool today, I go every week and usually hang out in the hot tub.
Anyway, there was a boy in there, slightly older then me and quite attractive in my eyes, with very nice arms. Lol
I made some small talk, we chatted for a bit and I came right out and said,
You have really nice arms, I just wanna squeeze them! (FACEPALM)

I cannot stop thinking about this and I am so completely embarrassed that I said that to him! He was fine with it, he actually said go ahead and then he flexed them a bit hahaha!

I could use some opinions on this from some guys here. What would you think if a girl you didn't know said that to you? Would you think she was weird? Would you feel embarrassed?

:rolleyes:

Bull
January 13th, 2016, 08:13 PM
I would be flattered and act about the same. Don't be embarrassed for complimenting him.

Vanilla Cupcake
January 14th, 2016, 09:53 PM
Thankyou both for responding. I feel better now. :)

Vanilla Cupcake
January 15th, 2016, 02:50 AM
welcome, ive defintley had weirder, ive had girls say they love my big calves and want to feel them.... lol totally random, I didn't know what to say to that lol

Oh LOL that's hilarious!

It's funny what goes through our minds and comes out of our mouths.
I also want to squeeze his pecs after but didn't wanna press my luck lol
I mean, how far is too far when it comes to girls and stuff like that?

Vanilla Cupcake
January 15th, 2016, 02:57 AM
yea ive heard some weird stuff, like "can I pop that pimple on your neck", from the girl behind me in class, totally weirded me out!! it really depends on the guy, some guys would love the attention, some guys who are more shy may not like that, so it all depends on the persona and the situation

Oh gawd I would never ask to pop a pimple to someone I didn't know well. Lol

SillyShyGuy
January 15th, 2016, 03:24 AM
I do not think you should be embarrassed Vanilla Cupcake. Guys- and girls- cannot read minds. It was a good thing for you to be honest. Now he knows that you are interested in him and that is why he did not react in a bad way. He took the compliment. Not only did you hint that you are attracted to him, but it helps him feel confident about himself which will make him like you.

pjones
January 16th, 2016, 11:16 AM
i would be flattered too

Vanilla Cupcake
January 16th, 2016, 07:29 PM
I love to give compliments, I wish I could give more but I Guess I should pace myself lol

Hideous
January 16th, 2016, 07:32 PM
I would've done the same exact thing, good for you! If someone asked to squeeze my muscles (which I barely have any), then I'd say go for it.

Vanilla Cupcake
January 16th, 2016, 07:56 PM
I would've done the same exact thing, good for you! If someone asked to squeeze my muscles (which I barely have any), then I'd say go for it.

If that's you in that picture, it looks to me like you have nice hard muscles.
It's the hard tight ones that are so hot, size doesn't matter so much. It's that tightness that makes me want to squeeze them. It also makes me want to bite them just to see if it hurts or not LOL