He is scared for his reputation?

[ZzeWatermelon]

Hey guys,

So my best friend alias super duper giant crush of mine, likes me, tries to make me jealous, looks at me, talks to me everyday, touches me "accidentally" etc... But his best friend told me that my crush wouldn't go out with me just for his reputation. He's scared of what his guy friends might think, and other people in general.
I'm not the hottest out there ... But it's sad that he won't go out with me just for reputation.

What can I do? Don't tell me to move on, cause I know that. :)

[Cadanance00]

That is sad. Sad that he isn't man enough to be out to his friends about a girl he likes.

[Uniquemind]

There's nothing you can do.

He just needs to grow up.

[AutumnWinds]

Hey guys,

So my best friend alias super duper giant crush of mine, likes me, tries to make me jealous, looks at me, talks to me everyday, touches me "accidentally" etc... But his best friend told me that my crush wouldn't go out with me just for his reputation. He's scared of what his guy friends might think, and other people in general.
I'm not the hottest out there ... But it's sad that he won't go out with me just for reputation.

What can I do? Don't tell me to move on, cause I know that. :)

that's awful, hunnii. i hope his best friend is wrong.

the only think is can suggest you do is confront your friend/crush about this. confess your feelings and ask him about his, and if he says he doesn't like you, or will not date you, then cut him off from all the flirty stuff. it'll help you move on, but also might make him realize what he's missing out on.

[ZzeWatermelon]

I already confessed to him by message. It was like 1 month and a half ago to two months. And then when I asked if he liked me back, he said no sorry.
But that's the thing... It happened a while ago, and he's still acting interested... he calls me everyday etc and we talk for a long time.

[SillyShyGuy]

I am afraid it is best not to be with him. If he likes you I think it is a shame that he will not date you because it would affect his image. That is not a good thing. He values his reputation over you. It is sad, but my advice would be to move on. However, you could try to spend more time with him and hint that you both should be dating. If he is worries about what his friends might think, then it is a sign that he will be a very bad date since he will be embarrassed to be seen with you.

[ZzeWatermelon]

Yeah it sucks
But then it's more of a"rumor", he hasn't told me this... But his best friend said that, so I guess it's true.