Erectile Dysfunction Help!

[HouseStark]

I'm only 16 and I believe I have erectile dysfunction.
When I was 11 was when I started getting erections, It was the stage for me when I was always extremely hard, I'd get hard in class and was just so horny all the time. I started watching porn and masturbating over it. I did this until I was 14, when I was 14 I was barley ever horny, id still get horny sometimes and masturbate over porn, but one time I was hooking up with a girl for a night and she wanted to have sex, but I couldn't achieve an erection. When I was 15 I decided to stop watching porn.

It has been about 9 months since I stopped now, I still masturbate like 2 times a week, usually just to twerk videos or nude playboy images, but off the porn. I can only get a semi hard penis and it is very easy for it to go down.
I need help and advice on what to do to make it better.

[hairy balls]

hi there I understand what you are going through I went through it also you need to talk to your doctor

[Booker]

Given your deep concern, to be honest this is something that you should consult a doctor about - other people on VT may have similar experiences but medical council is always the best in these situations. All the best man :)

[Straya]

I'm only 16 and I believe I have erectile dysfunction.
When I was 11 was when I started getting erections, It was the stage for me when I was always extremely hard, I'd get hard in class and was just so horny all the time. I started watching porn and masturbating over it. I did this until I was 14, when I was 14 I was barley ever horny, id still get horny sometimes and masturbate over porn, but one time I was hooking up with a girl for a night and she wanted to have sex, but I couldn't achieve an erection. When I was 15 I decided to stop watching porn.

It has been about 9 months since I stopped now, I still masturbate like 2 times a week, usually just to twerk videos or nude playboy images, but off the porn. I can only get a semi hard penis and it is very easy for it to go down.
I need help and advice on what to do to make it better.

id suggest seeing a doctor and they can give you options on what to do

[awesomeness14]

Seeing a doctor is the best option.

[TimMyself]

I don't think you should be worried, most of the time these things go away, but if you want to be sure, go check witha doc

[ska8er]

I think u need to relax more-if u think u cant get hard-u
wont get hard and if u r hard-u r scared u r going to lose it.
If it continues I would ask ur doctor but I don't think u have ER.
U say u jack twice a week so u have to get hard.

[Bluebyrd]

I don't think it's as serious as other people are saying it is but then again I'm no doctor. Maybe try easing in porn again properly. Go to a doctor though if that doesn't work.

[Meamo]

Yeah like everyone else said, id go see a doctor. But because you get semi hard it shouldn't be to bad.

[Harrier]

See a doctor. The only other suggestion I have is if you have a REALLY good friend who wouldn't mind being a FWB you could tell her (or him) you're situation and see if they could get you really comfortable, set you at ease and see if they could get you off. That way you know it's not just that you're getting sick of porn (like some guys do) or not keeping hard because you're too nervous (like some guys do). But you have to find someone you can really trust.

[JakePaiv]

Well, a doctor sounds like a good idea, but maybe you should also try gay porn. It is also very possible that you lose an erection due to your hormones no longer allowing you to get off on the whole sex thing, and only getting off by looking at a certain gender. This may be something to come to terms with and VT has a very good support community.

Of course, you could also be asexual, this sexually attracted to no-one and you're getting off on the feeling.

Perhaps you should check on these things before you see a doctor. Or just go to the doctor if you really feel like that's not something even slightly possible for you.

[hekohnice]

lik everyone else is saying, see a doctor to make sure

BUT
I've had similar problems with ed and pe, both problems were totally in my head and just took time to fix it. I'd say stop masturbating altogether and then hookup with a girl to see if it helps. Being with someone i trusted also helped me a lot too.

[Hermes]

Getting stressed or anxious can mean you don't get hard. This could include "performance anxiety" for example when meeting a girl for the first time.

If you say you have suddenly become less horny in general then I'd look for other forms of stress in your life. Have you recently moved from school to college or some form of higher education or have you started a job?

If you can't think of anything stressful then see what you can do about it - read up on dealing with stress. If you can't think of any source of stress then go ahead with the idea of seeing the doctor.

[warbit]

I know it is really awkward seeing a doctor but it is worth it just in case there is something wrong. It could be what JakePaiv said... Try something new first then see a doctor if that doesn't work :)

[hairy palmer]

im 14 n i LUV gettin hard so i feel 4 u bud. just a q..... do u feel horny but still cant get it up? ive never heard it happening 2 a young guy so if ur brave i spose u better go 2 a doc but try workin on it on ur own 1st.
1) have u tried just workin ur dick n2 a hardon n see how long u can keep it up (edging)
2) maybe stop the porn all 2gether n just use ur imagination ( ive read that sum guys get so addicted 2 porn it kinda stops bein sexy n just becums a habit....so break the habit.
3) have u got a close enough mate that u could ask 2 give u a h.j so u get used 2 another persons touch...
im no doc but i read up on all sexual things heaps n have picked up sum good advice along the way n i hope this is helpful in sum way.
keep us posted with how ur goin hey!?!:metal:

[hairy palmer]

im 14 n i LUV gettin hard so i feel 4 u bud. just a q..... do u feel horny but still cant get it up? ive never heard it happening 2 a young guy so if ur brave i spose u better go 2 a doc but try workin on it on ur own 1st.
1) have u tried just workin ur dick n2 a hardon n see how long u can keep it up (edging)
2) maybe stop the porn all 2gether n just use ur imagination ( ive read that sum guys get so addicted 2 porn it kinda stops bein sexy n just becums a habit....so break the habit.
3) have u got a close enough mate that u could ask 2 give u a h.j so u get used 2 another persons touch...
im no doc but i read up on all sexual things heaps n have picked up sum good advice along the way n i hope this is helpful in sum way.
keep us posted with how ur goin hey!?!:metal: