I am so lonely

[ZACK0]

Hey guys, so first of all id like to mention that I'm sorry if this is in the wrong section.

Now to the Important part.
OK so basically for these last 4-5 months i have been single and its really starting to have a bad effect on me whenever i masturbate i feel horrible and bad inside then i think if i had a girlfriend i probably wouldn't be doing this and the reason i want a girlfriend so badly is that I'm sick of having no one to talk to and worrying constantly its starting to get me down quite allot these days.


I just wish i had a girlfriend to treat right make her feel like a princess and spend all of my money on, i know this is stupid but i just thought maybe you guys could help ? this is a really big problem for me like REALLY BIG

P.S please don't focus on the masturbation part in your responses yes it is a problem but its not a big one

Thanks in advance

[Salad_Baby]

I haven't had a 'real' girlfriend for all my life and I'm 16. Don't think that just because you haven't met a nice girl in the early stages of your life that you will NEVER meet one. That's illogical. Everybody has someone out there for them, and sometimes it isn't blatantly obvious when you first meet them.

In terms of being lonely, how about spending more time with friends? That'll hopefully distract you from that aspect; and about the masturbation, you shouldn't feel horrible about it, we all do it, it's all natural.

[redrider12]

That's more or less exactly what I could say about myself right now. Like any male friends just aren't the same as a girlfriend.. And I want that very badly

[SillyShyGuy]

Haha I have that guilt feeling after wanking as well. It makes you think that you are better than this and having a girlfriend would be more fun. But you cannot get a girlfriend over night. It is better to wait for a special someone that to be trapped in a relationship that suffocates you and makes you unhappy. Plus fooling around is not guaranteed if you have a girlfriend, so do not expect a handjob every day.

[Bluebyrd]

I know it's a typical response but the time will come! IDK maybe try to get out more, get some friends that are girls and try flirting. Like I said, you will find someone at some point!

[ska8er]

I don't c where the jackin off is a problem-y do u think it is?
Just cause u don't have a girl doenst mean there is something
wrong or a problem with getting off. A girl is not going to b there
all the time.

[targaryen101]

you should never feel bad about masturbating, it is harmless and has its benefits. As for being alone, I know what you mean it can get a little depressing im sure everyone will agree. just distract yourself with school, work, hobbies, interest and most importantly friends. catch up with old ones, make new ones, friends are so much more important at this point in your life than anything. you should NEVER feel you need someone else to make you feel good about yourself and to make you happy. YOU are the one that needs to make yourself feel loved and happy about yourself, it is the foundation of a physically, emotionally, spiritually and socially healthy life. I hope this helps..

[hairy balls]

I agree with targary you should never feel bad about masturbating, it is harmless and has its benefits. As for being alone, I know what you mean it can get a little depressing im sure everyone will agree. just distract yourself with school, work, hobbies, interest and most importantly friends. catch up with old ones, make new ones, friends are so much more important at this point in your life than anything. you should NEVER feel you need someone else to make you feel good about yourself and to make you happy. YOU are the one that needs to make yourself feel loved and happy about yourself, it is the foundation of a physically, emotionally, spiritually and socially healthy life. I hope this helps.. if you only want a g/f so you don't feel guilty about masturbating and want to use her for sex then this the wrong path to go down g/f or b/f are not there to make you feel good for sex they should be first and foremost there as friends the sex will come later
all I say is masturbate as much as u like enjoy it and when the time is right you will meet the girl who is right for you

[Straya]

Hey guys, so first of all id like to mention that I'm sorry if this is in the wrong section.

Now to the Important part.
OK so basically for these last 4-5 months i have been single and its really starting to have a bad effect on me whenever i masturbate i feel horrible and bad inside then i think if i had a girlfriend i probably wouldn't be doing this and the reason i want a girlfriend so badly is that I'm sick of having no one to talk to and worrying constantly its starting to get me down quite allot these days.


I just wish i had a girlfriend to treat right make her feel like a princess and spend all of my money on, i know this is stupid but i just thought maybe you guys could help ? this is a really big problem for me like REALLY BIG

P.S please don't focus on the masturbation part in your responses yes it is a problem but its not a big one

Thanks in advance
your not ready for a gf if you feel you need to wait on her hand and foot to make yourself happy. you need to balance yourself before you get into a relationship otherwise it wont work and youll end up been worse off or even worse youll have a girl thats just staying with you because you baby her.

[ZACK0]

Hey guys thanks for all the help but at the moment im grounded and i havent seen my friends in 3 mths