Can You lose your virginity whilst "Experimenting"

[ZACK0]

Hey guys, Quick questions can you lose your virginity whilst experimenting

[drhalsey1]

Helping again, it just depends on the kind of "experimenting". If you experiment with any bigger sexual act(anal, normal) then yeah, but jacking off, looking, touching, oral, those wouldn't count

[ZACK0]

ok thanks again drhalsey1

[drhalsey1]

Again, anytime

[Mikeymic]

Yeah you totally can, I agree with drhalsey for the most part

[Hermes]

It depends on what you do and what you accept as virginity.

By virginity most straight guys mean not having put his penis in a vagina so, as long as you don't do that during your experimenting, you'll still be a virgin.

It gets more complicated if you factor in gay sex. The obvious parallel to penis in vagina sex for gay guys would be anal sex and many gay guys will use this as the definition of virginity but, as having anal sex is not such a foregone conclusion as have penis in vagina sex is for straight couples some may be more liberal in their definition. Given the history of why (female) virginity was important, prior to contraception, virginity is not such a useful concept for guys and especially for gay guys.

I suspect, when posing the question, you were thinking about blow jobs, i.e. if you experiment with another guy and it ends up that he sucks you have you lost your virginity? I think if you are expecting to have penetrative sex with a girl at any point then you should count that, and not a blow job with either sex, as the point you loose your virginity.

[ZACK0]

Thanks Hermes that really helped !!!!!

[Bull]

Intercourse is the only means by which virginity is lost. Every thing else is just 4 play!

[northy]

Only if you engage in intercourse with another person.

[redrider12]

The question depends a lot on what you think virginity actually is. To a lot of people, virginity is the state of having never experienced penetrative sex. I considered myself a virgin up until the moment I first had vaginal sex. I suppose that people with different views would see it differently, but I don't think giving or receiving a oral or any experimentation counts.

[SillyShyGuy]

It is very possible if you and your friend are very close and are willing to do more. It can escalate quickly. Oral does not count of course because it is not penetration.

[SethfromMI]

Helping again, it just depends on the kind of "experimenting". If you experiment with any bigger sexual act(anal, normal) then yeah, but jacking off, looking, touching, oral, those wouldn't count

I think this sums it up very well. yea just because it is experimenting does not mean it is not sex (again depending on what exactly is being done)

[ashdaniel]

Depend on how you determine the word virginity. In some culture if you jerk off that account as lost of virginity for guys. It up to you to define virginity. For example if you try anal sex either you recieve or giving does that account if you are str? It all up to yourself to define it and nowadays I am not surprise if you lost it or not because it none of other people's business.

[Bluebyrd]

I think I agree with Justin

[Zachary G]

Umm, yeah, you can lose your virginity while experimenting, it all depends on what it is you are doing

[NoName2001]

well yeah... if it goes too far

[sam99]

Helping again, it just depends on the kind of "experimenting". If you experiment with any bigger sexual act(anal, normal) then yeah, but jacking off, looking, touching, oral, those wouldn't count

Perfect answer. Always be comfortable while experimenting. If you don't know what it is ask first.

[TimMyself]

Are you a thief if you experiment to rob someone, if you actually do rob someone you are.
If you actually get in someone (or someone in you) you lost your virginity.

Tho guys don't have a physical way of telling you had sex. So our virginity is just imaginairy

[Canadian Dream]

Depends what you think experimenting is... if it goes all the way (like anal sex) then I would say that's still losing your virginity. Otherwise I would say no.

[Harrier]

Losing your virginity is one of two things in my mind: either intercourse or penetration, just not positive which one it is for certain. If you're gay, I'd say anal sex is for sure the only way to lose your virginity, If you're straight, vaginal intercourse is definitely losing your virginity, not sure if straight anal sex counts or not??? Everything else, bjs, hjs, etc is not losing your virginity.

[hairy palmer]

Hey guys, Quick questions can you lose your virginity whilst experimenting

yo bro. depends on what virginity ur talkin bout. ur a virgin at everything til u do it once hehe. ive lost my hj virginity bj virginity ( from girls n boys) but ive never 'entered' n e 1 lol....what virginity are u talkin bout man?:metal:

[Jacob12]

depends how you see it. techiniclal definition of sex and losing your v-card is any genital contact. so yes.