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dauntless
January 10th, 2016, 12:40 PM
So my parents' relationship didn't end on good terms. They can't talk to each other without fighting and they live in different countries now. Me and my sister used to live with my mom and visit my dad at every break. Until this Christmas break when we learned that my dad is degeneratively sick and might not have a lot left to live. We wanna live with him so we tried to convince him to move to our country and we'd live with him, but he said that he can't because he doesn't trust my mom and she has full lawful custody of us, so he's scared of losing us to her. So we made a deal where we would get our mom to change the custody so we could live with him. She started all kinds of fights and couldn't agree to change it. She wound up signing a sheet for an agreement but then tore it down. We wanted to go back and talk some sense into her but my dad doesn't want us to move anymore. He said it is his decision and we're staying here. I wanna stay with my dad but I can't never see my mom, my family and my friends again. All my stuff is at my mom's house but he refuses completely to let us go back there. I don't know what to do I can't let him alone but I can't also give up everything forever.