Have been unsuccessful repeatedly with getting a girlfriend?

[NoahN]

I'm 15, heterosexual male. I've asked out 3 girls and have either been rejected or they say yes and then they just completely avoid me, indicating they're not interested.

I've never kissed a girl, and everyday I feel painful desires to cuddle and make out but have never been able to express myself regardless of my efforts.

It's become tiring working hard to begin establishing relationships and them never working out because they're either too old for me or something else. Currently I have no motivation or optimism in trying to do this entire process again despite my perpetual desires for basic intimacy everyone else experiences effortlessly.

Any advice for how I can overcome this or become successful in the near future?

[Tesserax]

Dude, just chill and be patient. I'm 17 and I only just recently had my first kiss. Don't expect people to just fall in love, it's not how it goes. You try, you fail, you try again.

[northy]

Look, there are other things in life. Relationships take time and you need to meet the right person, you can't expect the first person you ask to be your lifelong partner.

[SillyShyGuy]

First off, I am sorry some girl avoided you after saying yes. I hate when that happens. The worst part was my best friend did that to me. It turns out she was flirting with another guy on facebook. Well be sure not to ask out any random girl because that is risky. If you think a girl is pretty get to know her first. Then when you seem like you are getting to know each other, ask her to hang out. Not a date if you do not want, but see a movie or go shopping. Do not be afraid, stay positive. If it helps you cheer up, I did not get my first serious girlfriend or first kiss until after high school and it was well worth the wait. Be patient and use the Force.

[Vanilla Cupcake]

I think that when we stop trying and we focus on ourselves is when we end up meeting someone. I've seen that happen a lot.

[Taryn98]

I agree with Ella. Stop trying to have a relationship. Have fun with your friends, hopefully with and through them you'll be introduced to some girls. Spend time getting to know them casually (friendly). After they get to know you better, if they enjoy being around you, they'll be more inclined to go on a date.
Still remember, everyone gets rejected. It happens more times than not. Dating is a contact sport, meaning the more people you contact the better chance of finding someone. Or think of fishing, you cast the line many times and get nothing. Then there are times you catch something you don't want. You do this over and over until you find what you're looking for. You have to be patient and not try so hard.

[Awakened Sin]

Bro, who gives a rat's ass you haven't kissed anyone. A lot of people go into their 20's without kissing someone. And for that other point. Dude only three girls? I failed after ten girls and am I worrying no. Know why? At this point, I just don't care anymore. I'm actually trying to prevent myself from dating now! Do the same if you feel like you're failing. Once you get to that point then you can start worrying!

I apologize if this hurts your feelings, I don't sugarcoat.