Dating Your Best Driend Survey

[SillyShyGuy]

I am curious as to what your thoughts are when it comes to dating your best friend of the opposite gender? Or if you are gay, then dating your best friend who is the same gender as you to be fair. I personally would date my best friend. Asking my friends how they felt either helped me become closer to them or helped me discover who my fake friends were.

Would you ever date your best friends if one of you had feelings for one another?
How close are you with your best friend?
Would it be awkward for you?
Would it be awkward for them?
Would you care about risking the friendship?
Would you say yes if your friend asked you out on a date?
Have you had feelings for your friend before?
Have you thought about kissing your friend before?
Have you thought about your friend naked?
Have you thought about making love to your friend?
Have you thought about marrying your best friend?

[Desuetude]

Would you ever date your best friends if one of you had feelings for one another? Nope
How close are you with your best friend? Girl best friend: I'd say pretty close - 8/10. Guy: 6.5/10.
Would it be awkward for you? Yes in all cases.
Would it be awkward for them? Girl: yes. Guy: probably not.
Would you care about risking the friendship? Yup
Would you say yes if your friend asked you out on a date? Nu uh.
Have you had feelings for your friend before? Girl, no. Guy, maybe a little when I first met him.
Have you thought about kissing your friend before? Nope.
Have you thought about your friend naked? Nope.
Have you thought about making love to your friend? Nah.
Have you thought about marrying your best friend? Ha, no.

[Melodic]

Would you ever date your best friends if one of you had feelings for one another? I'm sure but I'd be pretty wary on it first.
How close are you with your best friend? I don't really have a best friend right now to answer that.
Would it be awkward for you? ---
Would it be awkward for them? -----
Would you care about risking the friendship? Yes because of past experience.
Would you say yes if your friend asked you out on a date? It really depends on the friend for me to answer it.
Have you had feelings for your friend before? None of my current friends.
Have you thought about kissing your friend before? ---
Have you thought about your friend naked?----
Have you thought about making love to your friend? ---
Have you thought about marrying your best friend? -----

[northy]

Would you ever date your best friends if one of you had feelings for one another? Nope<br />
How close are you with your best friend? Girl best friend: don't have one really, she moved away but when she was here it was 9/10. Guy: 7/10.<br />
Would it be awkward for you? Yes in all cases.<br />
Would it be awkward for them? Girl: yes. Guy: yes<br />
Would you care about risking the friendship? Yes<br />
Would you say yes if your friend asked you out on a date? No<br />
Have you had feelings for your friend before? No<br />
Have you thought about kissing your friend before? Nope.<br />
Have you thought about your friend naked? Nope.<br />
Have you thought about making love to your friend? Nah.<br />
Have you thought about marrying your best friend? no.

[MathewB NL]

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[AutumnWinds]

very interesting idea for a survey. can't wait to see more answers.

[Semi_IronMan]

Would you ever date your best friends if one of you had feelings for one another? absolutely

How close are you with your best friend? very close, probably 9.5/10

Would it be awkward for you? no

Would it be awkward for them? not sure hey

Would you care about risking the friendship? yes definitely

Would you say yes if your friend asked you out on a date? yeah

Have you had feelings for your friend before? yes

Have you thought about kissing your friend before? yes

Have you thought about your friend naked? I've seen him so...

Have you thought about making love to your friend? yes

Have you thought about marrying your best friend? not really

[Vermilion]

Would you ever date your best friends if one of you had feelings for one another? probably
How close are you with your best friend? I don't have one I have a group and pretty close
Would it be awkward for you? Kinda
Would it be awkward for them? Kinda
Would you care about risking the friendship? Yes a lot
Would you say yes if your friend asked you out on a date? Probably
Have you had feelings for your friend before? Yes one
Have you thought about kissing your friend before? Yes
Have you thought about your friend naked? Yes
Have you thought about making love to your friend? Yes
Have you thought about marrying your best friend? no

[Fiction]

Would you ever date your best friends if one of you had feelings for one another? Already am
How close are you with your best friend? Very
Would it be awkward for you? It wasn't, the relationship transitioned naturally when it was ready. We came to a point when we where more like a couple than best friends anyway, all we did was add the label.
Would it be awkward for them? Hope not :p
Would you care about risking the friendship? Yeah, it was a huge consideration of mine, but as I said, it didn't happen consciously so by the time it was "official" the damage had already been done.
Would you say yes if your friend asked you out on a date? See above..
Have you had feelings for your friend before? Yes
Have you thought about kissing your friend before? Yes
Have you thought about your friend naked? Yes
Have you thought about making love to your friend? Yes
Have you thought about marrying your best friend? Yes

[City Kid]

Before we became a couple, my boyfriend was one of my closest friends. It's not like we had known each other for ages, though. I don't know if I could ever date someone who I've been friends with for a very long time (as in years and years).

[hesaidhesaid]

I only write this because my first girlfriend was and still is my best friend.
Would you ever date your best friends if one of you had feelings for one another? Uh...yeah. Hehe.
How close are you with your best friend? Ridiculously close- I'd say almost criminal.
Would it be awkward for you? Nup.
Would it be awkward for them? You better believe, no!
Would you care about risking the friendship? For my experience, it was never about risking the friendship but rather doing something I have always wanted to do and that she has always wanted to do.
Would you say yes if your friend asked you out on a date? I did- so I guess yes?
Have you had feelings for your friend before? I dated mine so yeah? Lol
Have you thought about kissing your friend before?
Have you thought about your friend naked?
Have you thought about making love to your friend?
Have you thought about marrying your best friend? To all of the above four questions- yes, yes, yes and yes. And done all bar the last one- she is a super special woman to me.

[JoshPro]

Would you ever date your best friends if one of you had feelings for one another? Yes
How close are you with your best friend? I'd say 9 on a scale of 1 to 10
Would it be awkward for you? Nope
Would it be awkward for them? Hope it's not
Would you care about risking the friendship? Yes. We've been really good friends for the past 3 years.
Would you say yes if your friend asked you out on a date? I sure would ;)
Have you had feelings for your friend before? Not until another friend of mine said that she might have feelings for me.
Have you thought about kissing your friend before? I think I have
Have you thought about your friend naked? Yes
Have you thought about making love to your friend? Yes. But we've casually talked about it and she doesn't seem interested till she is 18
Have you thought about marrying your best friend? Nope.

[amgb]

Would you ever date your best friends if one of you had feelings for one another?
Only if those feelings were mutual.
How close are you with your best friend? Pretty close. Really close.
Would it be awkward for you? Pft yeah, incredibly.
Would it be awkward for them? I don't know.
Would you care about risking the friendship?
Definitely something I'd be scared of.
Would you say yes if your friend asked you out on a date?
Only if I have feelings for them and if I'm ready to start dating.
Have you had feelings for your friend before?
Yes, for quite a few friends actually.
Have you thought about kissing your friend before? All the time.
Have you thought about your friend naked? .....yeah.
Have you thought about making love to your friend? .....yeah.
Have you thought about marrying your best friend?
Nah not that far into the future yet.

[UNKNOWN8198]

Would you ever date your best friends if one of you had feelings for one another? I currently have feelings for one but I don't think it's mutual. If it became mutual then yes
How close are you with your best friend? I feel very close to them, but I don't think it's the same for them
Would it be awkward for you? No
Would it be awkward for them? I don't know, it depends on the circumstances
Would you care about risking the friendship? Yes, but would think that it would be recoverable
Would you say yes if your friend asked you out on a date? Yes
Have you had feelings for your friend before? Yes
Have you thought about kissing your friend before? Yes
Have you thought about your friend naked? Yes
Have you thought about making love to your friend? Yes/No. I've not gone that far towards it
Have you thought about marrying your best friend? Not gone that far

[GreenSky]

i had such situation but i don't take a risk to date with my close friend.

[RJH98]

Would you ever date your best friends if one of you had feelings for one another? Yes

How close are you with your best friend? very close. I tell her everything and she tells mee everything

Would it be awkward for you? No, au contraire

Would it be awkward for them? I don't think so. we dated for a short while

Would you care about risking the friendship? no, I know her for about 14 years now

Would you say yes if your friend asked you out on a date? I have said yes

Have you had feelings for your friend before? yes
Have you thought about kissing your friend before? yes I have done it too

Have you thought about your friend naked? I might have ;-)

Have you thought about making love to your friend? well, yeaah

Have you thought about marrying your best friend? Hell no. way to young for marriage. I don't even know if I believe in marriage

[BabyGMarie]

Would you ever date your best friends if one of you had feelings for one another? yea
How close are you with your best friend?8/10
Would it be awkward for you?Not really
Would it be awkward for them?Don't think so
Would you care about risking the friendship?Yes
Would you say yes if your friend asked you out on a date?Yes
Have you had feelings for your friend before?Not really
Have you thought about kissing your friend before?Definetly
Have you thought about your friend naked?Definetly
Have you thought about making love to your friend?Definetly
Have you thought about marrying your best friend?Not really

[Gunter]

Would you ever date your best friends if one of you had feelings for one another? No, considering im as straight as possible, and my best friends name is Micah, lol
How close are you with your best friend? about as close as possible without being gay, lol
Would it be awkward for you? vurry
Would it be awkward for them? vurry
Would you care about risking the friendship?
Would you say yes if your friend asked you out on a date? yes, jokingly
Have you had feelings for your friend before? not even a little
Have you thought about kissing your friend before? totes
Have you thought about your friend naked? ick
Have you thought about making love to your friend? ick
Have you thought about marrying your best friend? obvi

[TheMy5teryMan]

Would you ever date your best friends if one of you had feelings for one another? Yes
How close are you with your best friend? Close-ish
Would it be awkward for you? No
Would it be awkward for them? Maybe
Would you care about risking the friendship? Yes
Would you say yes if your friend asked you out on a date? Yes
Have you had feelings for your friend before? Yes
Have you thought about kissing your friend before? Yes
Have you thought about your friend naked? Yes
Have you thought about making love to your friend? Yes
Have you thought about marrying your best friend? Yes

Jeez, this survey is making me convinced that I just like her.

[LanaPole]

Would you ever date your best friends if one of you had feelings for one another? yes, i have a crush on one of my best guy friends. we like each other a lot
How close are you with your best friend? very close, we've know each other since we're very young
Would it be awkward for you? no
Would it be awkward for them? no
Would you care about risking the friendship? no i've known him for a long time
Would you say yes if your friend asked you out on a date? yes
Have you had feelings for your friend before? yes
Have you thought about kissing your friend before? already did
Have you thought about your friend naked? already did
Have you thought about making love to your friend? already did
Have you thought about marrying your best friend? ....... thats too far ahead

[Magenta]

Would you ever date your best friends if one of you had feelings for one another? I currently am.
How close are you with your best friend? I'd say pretty close since we're dating.
Would it be awkward for you? It was awkward as hell to bring up.
Would it be awkward for them? No, she was pretty chill.
Would you care about risking the friendship? Yes, since I dated another close friend before and it ended poorly.
Would you say yes if your friend asked you out on a date? Depends on the friend, just like it depends on anyone who asks me out.
Have you had feelings for your friend before? Yep.
Have you thought about kissing your friend before? Yeah.
Have you thought about your friend naked? We're gonna skip this one.
Have you thought about making love to your friend? See above.
Have you thought about marrying your best friend? Eh, not really.

[shantaram]

Would you ever date your best friends if one of you had feelings for one another? Yep.
How close are you with your best friend? 10/10 i like to go all out.
Would it be awkward for you?At first, yeah.
Would it be awkward for them? I dunno.
Would you care about risking the friendship? Yes.
Would you say yes if your friend asked you out on a date? Yes.
Have you had feelings for your friend before? Well, she is a crush-turned-friend-who-is-still-a-crush.
Have you thought about kissing your friend before? Sorta.
Have you thought about your friend naked? Not possible for me to hehe.
Have you thought about making love to your friend? ^.
Have you thought about marrying your best friend? Yes.

[Emerald Dream]

Would you ever date your best friends if one of you had feelings for one another? Yep.
How close are you with your best friend? 10/10 i like to go all out.
Would it be awkward for you?At first, yeah.
Would it be awkward for them? I dunno.
Would you care about risking the friendship? Yes.
Would you say yes if your friend asked you out on a date? Yes.
Have you had feelings for your friend before? Well, she is a crush-turned-friend-who-is-still-a-crush.
Have you thought about kissing your friend before? Sorta.
Have you thought about your friend naked? Not possible for me to hehe.
Have you thought about making love to your friend? ^.
Have you thought about marrying your best friend? Yes.

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