takes two to tango

[slyguy]

so basically is what happened is i have a girlfriend which we have been together for about a year and a half but the problem is she lives on the opposite side of Illinois so ive never visited her so she cant see my every move so for a while now ive been having sex with this girl who is engaged to this guy that im familiar with but i feel really bad about it and i want to tell him but she is all he has and im not the only one she indulges these sexual actions with the guys pretty crazy and tbh him trying to murder me isn't out of the question if i tell him my girl will probably find out because theirs gonna be a whole mess on certain social media sites and i just dint know what to do. also i feel really bad because she wants me to hang out with him like im every thing is okaywell as far as he knows everythings ok. p.s last time we had sex was 3 days before Christmas and i told my self no more shall this happen

pls no grammar police either :confused: :(

[Tesserax]

End it, tell her you've realized it's wrong. Dude, who cares about sex? If you just want sex you can say goodbye to a relationship. If you're going to keep doing this, might as well dump your girlfriend because you probably don't actually love her, you're just horny for her and want her body and not her. You gotta take responsibility like a real man, and do the right thing. You can keep it quiet between the two of you, that's not a problem. Sometimes secrecy is best. But the important thing is to STOP CHEATING, BOTH OF YOU! If she is engaged and cheating, you can bet your ass that if you ever dated her, she would be cheating on you as well. She's not ready to settle right now if she's able to cheat while engaged, and if you are also in the same situation then you'd better stay away from having a girlfriend before you break somebody's heart.

[SillyShyGuy]

Well your loyalty to your current girlfriend on the other side of Illinois counts for nothing now. Cheating is something I despise on a cellular level. Plus helping a girl cheat on her fiance is pretty bad too. Oh dear. I would not dare be caught in such a pickle. I would apologize to your girlfriend first. Well best of wishes to you buddy.

[Microcosm]

Yeah... You should seriously break up with your girlfriend if you're gonna go cheating on other girls. That's messed up. Especially if the girl you're cheating with is engaged! I mean you kind of deserve whatever reprimand her engagement partner would give you if I'm honest.

But that's only if you want to be technically correct in your actions ^

If you want to avoid any reprimand for your despicable actions, then you should probably lay low and try to sever ties with the girl you slept with. If her partner finds out, then you should probably keep away from him and be ready for any action he takes against you.

[slyguy]

End it, tell her you've realized it's wrong. Dude, who cares about sex? If you just want sex you can say goodbye to a relationship. If you're going to keep doing this, might as well dump your girlfriend because you probably don't actually love her, you're just horny for her and want her body and not her. You gotta take responsibility like a real man, and do the right thing. You can keep it quiet between the two of you, that's not a problem. Sometimes secrecy is best. But the important thing is to STOP CHEATING, BOTH OF YOU! If she is engaged and cheating, you can bet your ass that if you ever dated her, she would be cheating on you as well. She's not ready to settle right now if she's able to cheat while engaged, and if you are also in the same situation then you'd better stay away from having a girlfriend before you break somebody's heart.

the thing is i really love her i planned my trip to some see her u dont think its possible that i really feel bad about this it tears me apart i could never tell her

[Tesserax]

the thing is i really love her i planned my trip to some see her u dont think its possible that i really feel bad about this it tears me apart i could never tell her

End it with the other woman, stay with your girlfriend. You do not love the other woman, you want to fuck her, you lust over her. Your girlfriend on the other hand, that may actually be love, but even then I'm skeptical

[Uniquemind]

the thing is i really love her i planned my trip to some see her u dont think its possible that i really feel bad about this it tears me apart i could never tell her

I'm gonna be the harsh one here.


My response: Well you should've thought about all this before hand.

You hit the tennis ball and now it's up to fate to give a return swing, and you're panicking because you acknowledge your lack of control in the situation and the fact that you cannot have your cake and eat it too.

The consequences headed your way, are headed your way and that's it.

Idk how old you are but I suggest moving closer to your girlfriend if it's within your power to do so and stop cheating.

[slyguy]

I'm gonna be the harsh one here.


My response: Well you should've thought about all this before hand.

You hit the tennis ball and now it's up to fate to give a return swing, and you're panicking because you acknowledge your lack of control in the situation and the fact that you cannot have your cake and eat it too.

The consequences headed your way, are headed your way and that's it.

Idk how old you are but I suggest moving closer to your girlfriend if it's within your power to do so and stop cheating.

im 18