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Txfri1350
January 5th, 2016, 01:55 AM
Ok, so Im bi. I have a girlfriend who is absolutely beautiful and the best thing that has ever happened to me. She doesn't know that I'm bi, no one does except for my other best friend that is a girl. I wanna tell my brother but I don't know how to. He is 17 and doesn't really like to talk about anything sexual or about girls or guys. How do I talk to him about it? If I wanna tell one of my close friends what do I say? How do I start the convo?

northy
January 5th, 2016, 03:36 PM
Ok, so Im bi. I have a girlfriend who is absolutely beautiful and the best thing that has ever happened to me. She doesn't know that I'm bi, no one does except for my other best friend that is a girl. I wanna tell my brother but I don't know how to. He is 17 and doesn't really like to talk about anything sexual or about girls or guys. How do I talk to him about it? If I wanna tell one of my close friends what do I say? How do I start the convo?

Right, this is the tricky one. I have no experience at coming out, but I propose this question to you: Why do you need to tell them? It's not like you have a secret boyfriend. I suppose that if it is causing you stress that you are holding such a secret from them.
I suggest that if you do really want to do that, you wait until the topic comes up anyway and just slip it in. Beware that their reactions to it may not be what you like and you might end up losing friends. Try and gauge them beforehand to see if you know how they might react.