Sexuality

[Snazzler]

So I'm not really sure what I am. I say I'm Bi because I'm fine with any gender, but I feel like telling people that would make me seem strange. What is everyone else's sexuality and why? Should I feel strange about what I am?

[redrider12]

Should you feel strange? Absolutely not. There's no shame in admitting the truth whatever that may be. Gay, straight, bi, none of the above, all of the above...
The shame comes in the closed-minded people who think that you're strange for being who you are.
I'm straight personally. I'm not sure how to address the why part of that, more than to say I like girls. But I digress.
Embrace what you are. Nothing wrong with being truthful. Better that than say one or the other when it'll come back and bite you

[NZPerson]

No you shouldn't feel strange at all! 2015 was a great year for Lgbt and 2016 will be even better people wont judge you or think your strange and you don't even have to worrry about putting a label on it because you don't need to so just relax about it and when your ready and comfortable you will know.

[thekidd_dub]

You should never feel strange about you sexuality or who you like many different people like many different things some like you are perfectly fine with either gender and thats what makes you happy me I like females that what makes me happy and someone else that like nothing but guys makes them happy it's all about being truthful to yourself and not changing because you feel pressured to do so.

[Snazzler]

D'awww, thanks everyone. I'll try not to let others change me. Some people just need to not be so judgemental.

[hairy balls]

You should never feel strange about you sexuality or who you like many different people like many different things some like you are perfectly fine with either gender and thats what makes you happy me I like females that what makes me happy and someone else that like nothing but guys makes them happy it's all about being truthful to yourself and not changing because you feel pressured to do so.
I would say who do you feel more relaxed having sex, kissing ,hugging, sleeping with if its girls then you are most likely str8 if its both you are maybe bi if you prefer it with guys you may have gay feelings which ever it is don't stress out over it your body will work It out for you

[nklarke]

Your sexuality is not just who you are fine with but which gender attracts you sexually? In which situation you have erections, thinking about what ...

[Snazzler]

Your sexuality is not just who you are fine with but which gender attracts you sexually? In which situation you have erections, thinking about what ...

Both honestly. But personality factors in too.

[Harrier]

Never let people make you feel strange. Easier said than done I know. It's up to you whether you want to tell people. Maybe don't tell people that will attack you for it. But if you do and they attack you then it's their fault not yours.

[Hero.of.Hyrule]

Omg you should never feel strange about who you are. I'm gay and ive learned that that is a part of my personality! Since you think you're bi then that may be who you are. (A few months ago) I thought i was bi but it turned out i was gay, so be sure to really know who you are and embrace that! You cant help your sexuality, thats who you are! If you have any questions or need help you can contact me!

[Elysium]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality and Gender

[Bluebyrd]

Don't feel strange about being bi! People can't help what they find attractive, it's just the way their mind works

[thatonekidjacob]

So I'm not really sure what I am. I say I'm Bi because I'm fine with any gender, but I feel like telling people that would make me seem strange. What is everyone else's sexuality and why? Should I feel strange about what I am?

I'm gay because boys give me boners, girls don't. dass just how it be. I started noticing boys in "that" way when I was 11 or 12. I thought everyone was like that so I was totally open about it. Then someone called me gay and that's when I started to figure things out. I only relly accepted it a year ago.

[Maxime]

girls and boys give me boners, so I thing I'm bi. But I never had sex, perhaps I won't like sex with girls or with boys, I don't know yet.

[Reg_]

its fine to be confused or uncomfortable with yourself. dont be quick to label yourself just go after what you like and it might be easier to know what you are. feelings are confuing dont worry :D

[Snazzler]

I'm gay because boys give me boners, girls don't. dass just how it be. I started noticing boys in "that" way when I was 11 or 12. I thought everyone was like that so I was totally open about it. Then someone called me gay and that's when I started to figure things out. I only relly accepted it a year ago.

Hey, it's good that you know now.

[thatonekidjacob]

Hey, it's good that you know now.

You don't have to tell anyone until you're good with it. Give yourself more time to work things out in your head.

[Beach_Blonde]

I'm still trying to figure out what I am. I'm pretty sure I'm bidexual. But I know I'd rather be with a girl !or then a guy. But I have been with a guy. See I'm still confused as to what I am....but I don't feel strange about it. I think everybody here is right. We are what we are and there's nothing strange about it.

[UNKNOWN8198]

Technically I go by bi-romantic homosexual, because I feel emotionally and romantically attracted to both genders (if only a select few in the female camp), however have no interest in the female body what so ever (sexually or anything), whereas the male body is quite the opposite (if you catch my drift). Unless asked for a full break down of my sexuality though, I just go with gay, because it's far easier and I have far more interest in guys.

I felt strange when figuring out my sexuality as well, because I had to get used to the idea that I wasn't 'normal', so don't worry about it. If the idea is new to other people, they might find it odd to begin with, but once they recognise that you're exactly the same person that will go very quickly. Remember as thatonekidjacob said, you don't have to tell people unless you're happy with it, if you decide to at all. It's a choice that's completely up to you. Also remember that it's a decision that you can change you mind on as well. You could go with bi now, and then in 5 years when your hormones have fizzled out decide that actually guys aren't all that great so change to straight instead.

[ECSTASY]

I can surely say that im gay cause i have never had any crush on any girl . And i can't even imagine myself having sex woth a girl . That might be a little bit strange but well , thats who i am :p

[pjones]

i'm bisexual, like both genders sexually and romantically. but really just figured it out last year and quite confident in who i am.

you don't have to tell anyone what your preference is, it's your business. and not strange at all to feel this way

[Zachary G]

No you shouldnt feel strange about how you feel because the truth of it is, we have no control over who and or what we are attracted to, so it is what it is. There will always be people who dont like you or your choices in life, but you have to do what makes you happy and feel complete. Its your life, not theirs, and you have to live it for you, not anyone else.