Friend Problems

[likeit]

Hey guys I want to talk about this with someone because I dont have who to talk with so thats why I wrote here.
So the story goes like this, I have this one friend who I become friends with 6 months ago, since then we have become best friends. We do sleepovers and hangout together all the time etc. Now one day we did something stupid (I dont want to get into details) well that wasnt that stupid that his parents made it to be but anyways, one day we were just walking and he says to me that his dad doesnt want him to hangout with me. He told me that we are not going to hangout together for a couple of months, I was like shocked for the moment but I accepted what he told me and after while we both left home. I felt like I was left over because this was my first best friend and I really enjoyed his company. After 3 days, his parents came to my place and discussed the bad things we had done with my parents. Well we had a great time with them also we both apologized and promised them that we would never do such thing again and they smiled and forgived us. Now after 2 days everythig goes back to normalbut he wasnt inviting me to his house as he used to do before so one afternoon we were chatting and I tell him "do we get to hangout as before or have we got to wait couple of months" and he doesnt respond to that question, after 15 minutes he says to me good night (as always) and he gets offline. Now guys, I want to understand. Why didnt he give me an answer? Do you think that our frienship will be like before? With sleepovers etc?
Thanks for your time, sorry for my english if it sounded awkward in some parts.

[NeuroTiger]

It depends on what 'stupid thing' you guys did that your friend's parents were mad.
Maybe his parents did quite a speech to him about that and it's still bothering him.
Give him some time. :)

[likeit]

Look, its not that of a bad thing but his parents think that he became like this after he started hanging out with me, and its not my fault for his actions I just teached him something and then he did it, he asked me to teach him how, I didnt teach him out of nowhere. After they came to my house they met my parents because they had never met them before cause as I said it was a new friendship we had. Anyways, he sometime tells me to hangout with him but he isnt inviting me to his house as he did before, and why didnt he reply to my mesaage? this is what is confusing me. What should I do? Should I invite him to my place and see if he is going to come and how things will get? Ty

[likeit]

Do you guys think that inviting him over my place for a sleepover is a good idea??

[Semi_IronMan]

Do you guys think that inviting him over my place for a sleepover is a good idea??

it would be rather helpful if u tell us what 'stupid thing' u guys did

[likeit]

Well I cant tell you guys exactly what we did but it is something like stealing. I cant tell the full version of it but it has to do with getting things that cost money for free. And it is against the law. Thats why his parents and mine were so angry about what we did.

[likeit]

Today guys, he pretended to be asleep when I called him and he never wrote me a message, I sent him one but he juust readed it and then got offline. I think that our friendship may be over. I just need some support because this is a new friend but we planned so much things to do in the future and it is strange for everything to get like that for that short period of time. Maybe in the end he will act as nothing has happened and he will continue with his fake feelings towards me, but I know that he is just pretending to be my friend, maybe his parentsare telling him to back away from me, do you guys think that I should back away from him for maybe a couple of months as he said? What should I doo?? I need help.

[likeit]

Guys please help me out!!

[outback4]

Message him and tell him exactly how you feel about it. That you wish y'all could still be friends like before, but if he doesn't want to then you would atleast like to know.

If he answers that, you'll know where y'all stand

[likeit]

Okay guys, i talked to hin about it and now everything seems to be like normal :)
i will keep you updated if something goes wrong.
thanks.

[likeit]

Hello guys,
this weekend has been so good and so special about my relationship with my friend.
We have been hanging out together more and more and everything is running out smoothely but he still isn't inviting me to sleepover at his place as he used before. Do you guys think that these are his parent's actions or he isn't inviting me himself? I have to remind you that when he used to invite me over we had like 2 laptops to play games on but now what is left is only his laptop and maybe he is thinking that if he invites me we won't have what to do or he maybe thinks that he will be playing games and i will be just watching him... maybe he thinks that we can play better when we both are in our homes and play from there... what do you guys think??

[Bull]

Do you guys think that inviting him over my place for a sleepover is a good idea??

absolutely!:)

[Straya]

Guys please help me out!!

mate stop overhtinking it. its his parents they obviosulsy had trust in you and that trust was broken and it isnt gonna come back in one day. untill his parents start trusting you again things arnt gonna go back to normal and just becasue to you it wasnt a bad thing dosent mean they dont see it that way and its there opinion that counts in this situation

[Not Matt Damon]

If only friend like you exist in my life, who would actually fight to save the friendship. If this kind of problem ever come to me, I'd be like "Oh f* it, who need friends anyway?" because I'm such a stubborn bastard who will regret everything later in my lifetime.

[likeit]

Hey guys, so he invited me over his place again but not for sleepover... maybe he invites me for sleepover in the weekend! We have to see what will happen. I will keep you updated!
Also, he is inviting me over his house as before, does that mean that his parents dont have a problem with me anymore?

[Meamo]

Well if he isn't inviting you over for a sleep over then maybe they do but they are trying to trust you again. If everything goes well give it time and I'm sure they will invite you over for sleepovers again.

[likeit]

Hey guys, so everything is back to normal, he invited me over his place for a sleepover and also his parents were real friendly with me this time, even better than before!
I will keep you guys updated if something else happens, tha ks for your advices!