View Full Version : I just can't ask her out
Tesserax
January 4th, 2016, 04:20 AM
And I don't know why. It's a weird gut feeling I'm getting, telling me not to do it. I'm not afraid of rejection or anything like that, I honestly want to ask this girl out but something subconscious is just giving me a really bad feeling about it. Maybe it is fear, I don't know. But I don't know if I should do it right now, and I'm stuck so I'm asking you guys for help.
Have you ever wanted to ask somebody out, but then just got this really bad feeling about it? I just don't know what to do about it. Thank you so much for your help guys, it's really appreciated
Edit: I would describe the feeling as wrong. For now I think I'll give it a shot, but I feel like my instinct is telling me otherwise for some reason. But that might just be reflex from my ex...
jft96
January 4th, 2016, 06:36 AM
Yes,it was so hard,but she accepted.It is normal to be so nervous.
If you like her,ask,you wont regret.Just be cool and calm :D
Good luck :)
Rhys2001
January 4th, 2016, 06:44 AM
Omg, I think we've all been there, I suggest you go for it - be yourself and just ask her to go somewhere with you. I used to like someone, I was so worried about asking her out; I never did and I regret it now.
redrider12
January 4th, 2016, 06:26 PM
I think that everyone gets that feeling the first time they get the guts up to ask. It's just something you have to learn to ration out to yourself. When you get to the point where you think about asking a girl out, the fear is only natural. You're telling yourself it will work, but part of you wonders what happens if it's not. Just be confident and cool and collected.
The best way to ask a girl out isn't "Will you go out with me" or any of that. Honestly, just be yourself. Don't do anything brash. Just ask if you want to hang out or watch a movie or do something one night. She'll know but the best advice I can give is just be casual. Don't think of it as a "date", whatever idea you have of a date. Just think of it as dinner or a movie with a friend
SillyShyGuy
January 5th, 2016, 04:41 PM
I feel the same way about this girl I have a crush on. I have had a few good opportunities to ask her on a date, but every time I see her I chicken out. I either pretend to do something else or I just make small talk and leave. I hate it because I like her so much and I need to make a move before another guy does. That is my advice for you friend. Do not be afraid. Ask her on a date or to just hang out after school. It matters not if you will be rejected. It hurts but it is better than wondering what could have happened.
Microcosm
January 5th, 2016, 04:42 PM
I say go for it. After all, the worst she can say is no. Just be confident when you're asking her.
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