coming out lez

[samandra13]

i got caught with a girl by her mom, she was okay with us doing stuff cause she say to keep going, but she says she wants to tell my mom. should i tell my mom or wait. oh its the friends mom that wants to tell.

[northy]

i got caught with a girl by her mom, she was okay with us doing stuff cause she say to keep going, but she says she wants to tell my mom. should i tell my mom or wait. oh its the friends mom that wants to tell.
Ouch.

It's probably best if you tell your mother yourself rather than by someone else.
If you don't want to tell your mother, then you have no obligation to. The closet is cosy.

[Exotic Babe]

You should think this through - are you comfortable with your mom getting to know? If no, you should definitely ask the girl's mom if she maybe could consider not telling her just yet. Also, because of your username, I'm assuming that you're 13 (?) and I'm thinking maybe that's a little early to label yourself yet? Your hormones are all crazy and you probably feel the need to experiment... It's actually kind of off topic, sorry, but I'd also consider how understanding your mom is. If maybe you are not like a 100% sure about your sexuality, which would be very totally normal in your age, maybe it'd be hard to explain her and stuff... Idk. Long story short - are you comfortable with telling your mom (you should probably tell her yourself, not let her hear it from someone else's mom)? If so, you could tell her about what happened, but I wouldn't rush with labeling yourself as a lesbian, seeing as you're (presumably) only 13.

[samandra13]

If so, you could tell her about what happened, but I wouldn't rush with labeling yourself as a lesbian, seeing as you're (presumably) only 13.


sorry i didnt say but im actually over 16.

[Exotic Babe]

sorry i didnt say but im actually over 16.

Okay, well forget about the age part then lol. Everything else I'd still suggest.

[northy]

Okay, well forget about the age part then lol. Everything else I'd still suggest.

Most people have a good idea of their sexuality by 16. I agree that labels are not necessary.

[Exotic Babe]

Most people have a good idea of their sexuality by 16. I agree that labels are not necessary.

Yeah, as said, I didn't know she was 16 lol. However, as I already said as well, I would also suggest you just told your mom what happened, you don't necessarily have to label yourself, I think your mom will make her own conclusions anyway lol.

[northy]

Yeah, as said, I didn't know she was 16 lol. However, as I already said as well, I would also suggest you just told your mom what happened, you don't necessarily have to label yourself, I think your mom will make her own conclusions anyway lol.

👍
Labels are just a word.

[ptz7649]

I'm sure she would prefer it coming from you.
Best of luck