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Adriangay12
December 29th, 2015, 02:49 PM
Would it be weird if asked my friend If we can jerk off together one of these days he's a really outgoing guy I'm gay btw and 15 the closest I've ever was I got touch his boxers when he had a boner I really don't know if he's straight bi or gay:confused:

old.acc
December 29th, 2015, 02:55 PM
u should really find out his sexuality first. before i joined this forum my answer probably would have just been that "thats a strange thing to ask him" but actually it seems to be something much more common than i thought. however its quite a risky thing to do because it puts ur friendship at risk. i would say its up to you. its definitely a risky question tho c:

Bluebyrd
December 29th, 2015, 03:03 PM
I don't think asking him is the best way to go about it, nor do I think sexuality needs to be brought up. If you want to tell him you're gay then that's fine but don't mention it when you ask him or approach him about jerking off. That might be uncomfortable for him and could possibly ruin your friendship. I think you should let him catch you jerking off and see what happens.

Adriangay12
December 29th, 2015, 03:05 PM
that is one of the best answers i've gotten I don't think our friendship wouldn't be at risk i bet he would need a lot of time to sink this in and try understand

Adriangay12
December 29th, 2015, 03:07 PM
let him see me jerking off first your saying hmm maybe that would work give him and idea on what it looks like just to give him a heads up, he also at times jokes about jerking off.

sam99
December 30th, 2015, 01:32 AM
well if you touched his boner through the boxers i'd say he is probably okay with at least comparing. maybe just randomly asking him more as a joke if he would do it and see what he says!

hairy balls
December 30th, 2015, 01:47 AM
yes I agree I don't think asking him is the best way to go about it, nor do I think sexuality needs to be brought up. If you want to tell him you're gay then that's fine but don't mention it when you ask him or approach him about jerking off. That might be uncomfortable for him and could possibly ruin your friendship. I think you should let him catch you jerking off and see what happens.

pjones
December 30th, 2015, 09:16 AM
you can just ask him, knowing there is a 50% he'll say no. hopefully he won't take any offense if he decides not to. maybe make a joke about it and see what his reaction is.

Skywalker007
December 30th, 2015, 05:08 PM
you can just ask him, knowing there is a 50% he'll say no. hopefully he won't take any offense if he decides not to. maybe make a joke about it and see what his reaction is.

That would be my idea too

Hermes
December 30th, 2015, 07:58 PM
So how did the touching his boner through his boxers come about? Was that an accidental brush? Did you spot him with a boner, compliment him and ask if you could feel it? Maybe there is something there you could build on.

Adriangay12
December 30th, 2015, 08:48 PM
He was very hot like feeling in the house so he decided to take his shorts off and that's when i said woah and he laughed a little it was at night and he's like do u want to touch it after that he's like don't tell anybody about this

Turtl3
December 30th, 2015, 09:05 PM
well he seems pretty open from what you said. Just be casual about it but make sure you don't pressure him in to it!

EliMcc
December 30th, 2015, 09:21 PM
Well maybe you should ask him as more of a joke and if he says no make it seem like you were joking the entire time, and maybe not bring up sexuality since you don't know what he is and it would be sort of awkward to ask a straight guy to jerk off when you are gay.