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Adriangay12
December 29th, 2015, 03:20 AM
Hi Im Adrian Im 15 and gay u guys can ask me anything u want also I'm having little problem im scared to tell my best friend sam I have a huge crush on him if anyone has good ideas that could help I would like to hear:what::lol:

Rhys2001
December 29th, 2015, 03:35 AM
Hey, I'm nearly 15, I'm bi and I know how you feel.
I guess it depends if Sam is gay or bi - does he have a compatible sexuality...

In my scenario, I liked my best friend too. I just tried to think of the consequences of liking her: our friendship/relationship would break up. Eventually after a week I started to move on. That was how I did it though, might not work for you idk...

I have a question. Do you want to like Sam, or do you find that it's inconvenient being that he's your best friend?

Adriangay12
December 29th, 2015, 03:42 AM
Hey, I'm nearly 15, I'm bi and I know how you feel.
I guess it depends if Sam is gay or bi - does he have a compatible sexuality...

In my scenario, I liked my best friend too. I just tried to think of the consequences of liking her: our friendship/relationship would break up. Eventually after a week I started to move on. That was how I did it though, might not work for you idk...

I have a question. Do you want to like Sam, or do you find that it's inconvenient being that he's your best friend?

Yes I love Sam we are so much alike but no i don't find it inconvenient that he's my best friend u can ask as much as you want btw Ill try to answer to the best of my abilities

Adriangay12
December 29th, 2015, 03:47 AM
Yes I love Sam we are so much alike but no i don't find it inconvenient that he's my best friend u can ask as much as you want btw Ill try to answer to the best of my abilities

I think he's bi how would i figure out if he was?

Rhys2001
December 29th, 2015, 03:55 AM
Oh I guess you could bring it up in conversation.
Best friends can be confusing, they can be intimate and yet not be into you or they're not intimate and they are, aahh it's so confusing. Frankly, in my opinion you, I always believe that the truth works best. If you think he would take it well, tell him how you feel and if he is your best friend I'm sure he would understand, and you could work it out together. This is why best friends are best friends, they know you better than you know yourself lol.

Rhys2001
December 29th, 2015, 03:58 AM
If you can't tell him and if you don't think it's likely anything will to happen, it sounds a bit pessimistic but try to get over him as quickly as possible, you shouldn't like someone if you're nearly certain nothing is going to happen. It's easier said than done, I know. I liked a girl for 11 months only to be rejected, but I should have listened to my friends and tried to get over her sooner... You will find a way!

wolf g
December 29th, 2015, 10:59 AM
welcome to vt

Abyssal Echo
December 29th, 2015, 02:01 PM
Welcome to VT!

Adriangay12
December 29th, 2015, 02:23 PM
would I need to ask him directly or just bring it up from out of the ordinary
also he can be a bit emotional at times