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Tesserax
December 28th, 2015, 09:40 AM
I was just thinking, as I guy I personally don't mind where I go to dinner, as long as I can eat good food and chat. But I was wondering if girls have a particular preference. Like, fast food, pub, formal restaurant, not-formal restaurant (Idk how you call it, just regular restaurants I suppose). And is it really about the food? Or is it mostly about the environment/ambiance and chit-chat. Obviously you wouldn't want to take somebody to a crappy place, it'd really ruin the mood. But it would be nice to know what kind of restaurant/food girls are fine with on a date, thanks!
Vanilla Cupcake
January 1st, 2016, 05:46 AM
Personally I like a menu with a good variety. If I was on a date, I wouldn't want to go anywhere that was infested with screaming kids.
I wouldn't want it to be formal, casual is great but not fast food. I like fast food but if it was a nice nite out then a restaurant for sure.
It really just depends because pub food is nice, but it's noisy, so maybe something In between.
Tesserax
January 1st, 2016, 07:01 AM
Personally I like a menu with a good variety. If I was on a date, I wouldn't want to go anywhere that was infested with screaming kids.
I wouldn't want it to be formal, casual is great but not fast food. I like fast food but if it was a nice nite out then a restaurant for sure.
It really just depends because pub food is nice, but it's noisy, so maybe something In between.
And how about the first kiss? First date? Second? Does it depend? Say you and I went and watched a movie, then had dinner and a chat/laugh afterwards, getting to know each other and we both enjoyed it. As we're about to depart, would you expect me to lean in for the kiss? Would you WANT me to? Again, I'm a noob in this department so forgive my silly questions, but it would be very useful to know all this, thanks!
Exotic Babe
January 1st, 2016, 07:14 AM
And how about the first kiss? First date? Second? Does it depend? Say you and I went and watched a movie, then had dinner and a chat/laugh afterwards, getting to know each other and we both enjoyed it. As we're about to depart, would you expect me to lean in for the kiss? Would you WANT me to? Again, I'm a noob in this department so forgive my silly questions, but it would be very useful to know all this, thanks!
It really depends on how much I like the guy and how much I enjoyed the date. If everything went like you described and I'd also feel attracted to you, I most probably wouldn't mind a kiss. Just see how the girl acts and if she seems to be enjoying your company and if there happens to be a good moment for the kiss. If you're unsure about how she might react, you could try like brushing her hand with yours or smth first and see how she reacts to that contact. If that goes well, go ahead and kiss her. Good luck lol.
Melodic
January 1st, 2016, 12:37 PM
I wouldn't care if we grabbed Chicken Mcnuggets from Mcdonald's as long as we were having a great time together!
BookSmart
January 1st, 2016, 01:19 PM
If your taking a girl out for a first date or even second date, especially after a movie, you don't have to go anywhere too fancy for food! Talk to her and see if she has any particular preferences, but don't worry about it too much. I'd try to go a little more upscale than McDonalds, but I'm sure a place like Friendly's or Five Guys (or something similar if those types of places aren't in your area), would be fine! If you're going to a theater in a mall, you could even take her to the food court, and it'd be alright! Just try to have a place in mind already before you go out; I'm not a fan of being asked out, only to have to choose our location. If you ask her out, have a destination and rough plan in mind (:
Do't worry too much during the actual meal time, make light conversation. You can always talk about the movie you just saw (if it was after a movie), and go over your interests. If your used to chatting during lunch with your friends, it might go something like that (except you'll have a pretty girl across from you, so maybe lay off the inappropriate jokes for a while).
As for this kissing, make sure she seems comfortable before you try anything. Try to start out with light touching, like placing your hand on her knee when your sitting across form each other, or holding her hand throughout the date. If she reacts well to those things, when it comes time to say goodbye, start to lean a little closer to her as you say goodbye, and tell her how much you enjoyed your time together. If she doesn't pull away, you can try to go in for the kiss. If you're a little too shy to do that, go ahead and be honest and tell her "I had a really great time tonight, would you mind if I made it even better, and gave you a kiss?" (or something along those lines)
Good luck with your date!! (:
Vanilla Cupcake
January 1st, 2016, 02:14 PM
And how about the first kiss? First date? Second? Does it depend? Say you and I went and watched a movie, then had dinner and a chat/laugh afterwards, getting to know each other and we both enjoyed it. As we're about to depart, would you expect me to lean in for the kiss? Would you WANT me to? Again, I'm a noob in this department so forgive my silly questions, but it would be very useful to know all this, thanks!
I think if we were having a really great time then yes a kiss on the first date sounds good. If you didn't kiss me, I might think you didn't have a very good time with me, unless you made it really clear that you did and just decided on no kiss then that's totally fine too.
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