I know what boys find attractive in girls, but what do girls find attractive in boys?

[Deku]

It's always been on my mind and I've always wondered about it, since I'm not a girl and so I can't really answer that question honestly.

Plus, I've never had a girlfriend or a friend that's a girl in general so I can't ask them myself.

So girls, what do you find attractive in boys?

[xXl0sth0peXx]

Puberty for All :arrow: Relationships and Dating

This is better suited here; I'll go ahead and move it for you.

In terms of your question, I think it depends on the person. For me, it's not so much what he looks like, but what he is. I like sensitivity and caring.. someone who listens and doesn't judge. Someone who's okay with low-key days, and doesn't super push me beyond things I'm comfortable. And someone who isn't just trying to fuck me, or pressure me into bed, most of all. Over anything else, that's the most important thing.

[Melodic]

Personality: I like someone fun to be around, outgoing, and caring!
Physical: Taller than me. Other than that, I really don't put much emphasis in looks.

[Deku]

Puberty for All :arrow: Relationships and Dating

This is better suited here; I'll go ahead and move it for you.

In terms of your question, I think it depends on the person. For me, it's not so much what he looks like, but what he is. I like sensitivity and caring.. someone who listens and doesn't judge. Someone who's okay with low-key days, and doesn't super push me beyond things I'm comfortable. And someone who isn't just trying to fuck me, or pressure me into bed, most of all. Over anything else, that's the most important thing.

Ah, thanks for moving it here. It makes more sense for it to be her now that I think about it.

And yeah, I agree that it depends on the person.

[Vanilla Cupcake]

Tall guys with muscles and guys that looks older then their age and act older and not immature. That's just a few.

[tulolita2015]

Personality, mature, and sexual experienced, looks its not that important to me.

[Bluebyrd]

I'm gay so I suppose I can answer that. As Val said, it's all about personal preference but for me, I like people with a tan and generally dark hair but that can vary. I also like people who are shorter than me (I'm talking about height you dirty-minded SOB!) but that doesn't particularly matter too much, just like everything else that I've said so far. One thing that does matter is personality. I like people who know how to take a joke and who don't take life so seriously all the time. I'm very sarcastic so I need someone who understands that.

*I should add, I like a nice bum too ;)

[Babs]

Physically, I'm not terribly picky. All sorts of people can be attractive to me. Generally though, I like people with dark hair and who are taller than me.

Personality-wise, I would like someone I have things in common with, to sum it all up. A shared sense of humor, interests, and so on. I like people who know how to chill out; I don't really want to be around someone who can't shut the fuck up, which is probably the most important thing.

[Uniquemind]

It varies girl to girl on what they're looking for.

But for me and from the conversations I've had with friends we all want:

1. Self-Confidence

2. Creativeness/Wit

3. At least average good looks (some of us have higher standards or specific trait preferences or fetishes which I won't go into, but it's worth this footnote).

4. A good heart and kind personality but not rigidly so. (By this we didn't meant a rule follower, it was argued a "bad boy" could have a good heart too).

5. Good listener with a brain behind those ears (good intellect), almost required to mentally stimulate us both in and out of bed.

6. Good communicator and this is related to #5 so idk if it's really separate or not.

[Vanilla Cupcake]

It varies girl to girl on what they're looking for.

But for me and from the conversations I've had with friends we all want:

1. Self-Confidence

2. Creativeness/Wit

3. At least average good looks (some of us have higher standards or specific trait preferences or fetishes which I won't go into, but it's worth this footnote).

4. A good heart and kind personality but not rigidly so. (By this we didn't meant a rule follower, it was argued a "bad boy" could have a good heart too).

5. Good listener with a brain behind those ears (good intellect), almost required to mentally stimulate us both in and out of bed.

6. Good communicator and this is related to #5 so idk if it's really separate or not.

All of this ^^^^^^^^ Agree 100 % and I also love intelligent guys :)

[Exotic Babe]

It varies girl to girl on what they're looking for.

But for me and from the conversations I've had with friends we all want:

1. Self-Confidence

2. Creativeness/Wit

3. At least average good looks (some of us have higher standards or specific trait preferences or fetishes which I won't go into, but it's worth this footnote).

4. A good heart and kind personality but not rigidly so. (By this we didn't meant a rule follower, it was argued a "bad boy" could have a good heart too).

5. Good listener with a brain behind those ears (good intellect), almost required to mentally stimulate us both in and out of bed.

6. Good communicator and this is related to #5 so idk if it's really separate or not.

Agree 100%.

[amgb]

The first thing that would attract me to a guy is his openness when he speaks. Things like his smile or his laugh, and the way he makes me feel when we're around each other and even when we're not. A guy who makes everyone around him feel welcome and invited to talk. It's not about how 'hot' he is compared to other boys, but more how warm he can make another person feel inside. A guy who doesn't look for the beauty in how huge or small my tits are, or how hot my ass is, but sees more how big my heart is and how much I love him as a person. That's what's most attractive - his eyes and how he sees the world. Oh and I do like someone with an intelligent creativity about them:)

[tulolita2015]

personality, good sense of humor, good feelings to me. ;-)

[Emerald Dream]

Personally, I like guys that are intelligent - without being arrogant or complete egomaniacs. He has to treat me respectfully, and we need to have things in common that we can actually talk about. A sense of humor is great too.

Being physically attractive is down on the list. I'm more turned on by smart guys, to be honest. Probably weird to some people, but it is what it is I guess :P

[Dygarde]

Well although I am a guy I will answer with what I looked for in my boyfriend.
Blonde hair ( ironically all of my boyfriends/girlfriends were blonde except one)
Blue eyes
At least within 2 inches of my height
Active lifestyle
Comfortable in their own skin/not shy
Educated (Needs to be able to have a conversation)
Willing to try new things
Child at heart (be able to have fun like a 5 year old)