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Dowlking
December 25th, 2015, 10:04 AM
I was staying with a friend over the weekend. She was gone out for a while, I stayed in. I found a pair of her panties and jacked off into them, and threw them back into her laundry basket. I was disgusted with myself, and haven't masturbated since. i just don't have the interested. I don't know if she knows yet, but I'm in fear of her finding out

Any ideas why I've lost interest? have I disgusted myself to it?
phuckphace
December 25th, 2015, 12:39 PM
that's probably your brain saying "what the fuck man?"

I'd recommend laying off porn. it does this thing where even in mundane situations you find yourself going full BLEEP BLOOP SEX SEX SEX and you can imagine what consequences you'll run into both now and later in life as a result. this compulsiveness can seriously wreck your friendships and relationships.
Vanilla Cupcake
January 1st, 2016, 02:47 PM
I started to laugh when I read that but at the same time my first thought was maybe you got the idea from watching porn.
I doubt she will find out, once you toss your panties into the laundry they often get buried with other things until washed.
Uniquemind
January 1st, 2016, 11:02 PM
Your problem is you've let your fetishes overtake the normal social rule etiquette of how to behave between what is polite and what is rude and a violation of personal sovereignty.
outback4
January 2nd, 2016, 08:48 PM
It's one thing to do what you like sexually at home. It's another to do it at someone's house with their panties.

I know how you feel though. Sometimes people get a high sex drive and do something dumb like that and the minute it's over you feel so disgusted. What you have to do is make sure that same high sex drive doesn't let you do something dumb like that. That means staying away from porn and stuff while you're with her.

Good luck man. Hopefully she won't find out, but never admit to it if she notices something on her panties. Just don't. She probably wouldn't bring it up anyway. And on top of that she probably won't find out.
phuckphace
January 2nd, 2016, 08:56 PM
having a sex drive is normal, not being able to control it is not
outback4
January 2nd, 2016, 09:11 PM
having a sex drive is normal, not being able to control it is not

well, really when people can't control it, that's when they need to make some changes, like no porn or something. it's like anything. you're gonna get to not controlling it, but when you get there you need to do something about it
Maria16 Here
January 2nd, 2016, 11:55 PM
well, really when people can't control it, that's when they need to make some changes, like no porn or something. it's like anything. you're gonna get to not controlling it, but when you get there you need to do something about it

Yes, I agree, you have to control it.
Dowlking
January 4th, 2016, 07:21 PM
You guys are all spot on here. This must stop here. i cant let something like this happen again. Something needs to seriously change and in the meantime I must just hope that she doesn't discover it as Vanilla Cupcake suggested.
Vanilla Cupcake
January 4th, 2016, 08:00 PM
Even if she did discover it she wouldn't know who did it. Lol
thatonekidjacob
January 5th, 2016, 11:05 PM
Even if she did discover it she wouldn't know who did it. Lol

Not without DNA testing.
Uniquemind
January 5th, 2016, 11:11 PM
Even if she did discover it she wouldn't know who did it. Lol

Or she might apply common sense and figure it out.

If she takes it to court she'd need proof beyond a reasonable doubt, but if it's just her own ruling of figuring out what happened.

You don't need proof beyond a reasonable doubt for that.