Why is dick size so important?

[redrider12]

Okay, this has bothered me for as long as I've read VT. I've virtually never heard school friends comparing sizes, but on here, literally every thread about sex mentions size. I don't see it - why does size matter? It's not like we can do much about our size. I don't ever see a girl getting far enough with you and then like backing out because you're not "big enough". In practicality, size is wholly irrelevant as long as it gets the job(s) done.
So, girls/guys, why? Why is dick size such a thing? I'd appreciate any and all constructive responses.

[Leprous]

Okay, this has bothered me for as long as I've read VT. I've virtually never heard school friends comparing sizes, but on here, literally every thread about sex mentions size. I don't see it - why does size matter? It's not like we can do much about our size. I don't ever see a girl getting far enough with you and then like backing out because you're not "big enough". In practicality, size is wholly irrelevant as long as it gets the job(s) done.
So, girls/guys, why? Why is dick size such a thing? I'd appreciate any and all constructive responses.

Well, I suppose allot of guys are very insecure about their size so they ask a girl who can confirm if it's 'big enough'. The size threads have been here for a loooong time, and they'll keep coming I think.
But yeah, I think the only reason guys ask this is because they are insecurinsecure, scared a girl may reject them based on their sizsize.

Hope this makes it a bit clear ^^

[NZPerson]

Nah nah nah here is the real answer...

ITS NOT!

[Leprous]

Nah nah nah here is the real answer...

ITS NOT!

Technicly the question was /why/ so yeah :p. But yeah, size doesn't matter.

[NZPerson]

Technicly the question was /why/ so yeah :p. But yeah, size doesn't matter.

"its not" is a correct way of answering "why is dick size so important" because im implying that it is not so important...

[Leprous]

"its not" is a correct way of answering "why is dick size so important" because im implying that it is not so important...

*sighs* he asked why allot of guys post about it but okay

[Cadanance00]

That's cuz teenage boys are competitive about everything. The white boys I know learn to hide their emotions, bow down to authority without question and keep their allowance to themselves. The hispanics are lot more fun to be around.

[NZPerson]

*sighs* he asked why allot of guys post about it but okay
ehh allrighty

[ClaraWho]

Okay, this has bothered me for as long as I've read VT. I've virtually never heard school friends comparing sizes, but on here, literally every thread about sex mentions size. I don't see it - why does size matter? It's not like we can do much about our size. I don't ever see a girl getting far enough with you and then like backing out because you're not "big enough". In practicality, size is wholly irrelevant as long as it gets the job(s) done.
So, girls/guys, why? Why is dick size such a thing? I'd appreciate any and all constructive responses.

I agree with every point raised, it's irrelevant.

~ Clara

N.B. What I find even more confusing is why flaccid length would matter?? Surely an inability to get it up would be more embarrassing than it being small like that?

[Zachary G]

Here is an article that pretty much says that the reason soze matters is all in our heads.

http://www.livescience.com/40192-penis-shame-guys-heads.html

[redrider12]

I just don't get it. It's like the first thing that gets asked sexually here is "how long is your boner". I don't get it

[Hermes]

Matter for what?

Even guys with penises well below average have enough for successful copulation and it has been observed that as a species we have disproportionately large penises even compared to the apes. It has been suggested this is more to guys to intimidate each other with a sign of manhood than to woo females and it certainly seems guys are much more interested in penis size than girls are.

[NeuroTiger]

Matter for what?

Even guys with penises well below average have enough for successful copulation and it has been observed that as a species we have disproportionately large penises even compared to the apes. It has been suggested this is more to guys to intimidate each other with a sign of manhood than to woo females and it certainly seems guys are much more interested in penis size than girls are.

Good answer.

Long ago, it was a sign of manhood and power to have the largest penis and it could be easily noticed since we all know what type of clothing those people were wearing.
Now it's mostly because of the insecurity of the teenagers who aren't sure if their penises have grown to the right size or enough to pleasure someone with it during sex so that they won't feel embarassed or be rejected.
For a guy whose penis is average in size, it's already a perfect dick.
For those a bit below average, your tool is enough to do the job.

[pjones]

it's not that important. if it gives you and or your partner pleasure than in my opinion it's the perfect size

[james wolf]

I think it's probably because a lot of the people on here are on here because they are insecure so they come here to talk about it. It's a bad sample of the actual population of teenage boys. If you took a random group of boys from your school, and a random group of boys from this forum, I think you'd find the ones from VT are more insecure.

[RJH98]

I agree with James. It's the reason I went on VT. To be honest it's totally irrelevant. I thought 5.5 inches was way too small and it is just not. I realized that about 3 months ago. I just stopped giving a single f*** about it. I still notice the feeling of insecurity sometimes but it goes away pretty quickly.

A big factor of why I felt so insecure is that the "cool kids" in my class on my previous school spoke about sex and their "HUUUUGEEEE" dicks all the time and I wasn't like that. I felt like I was different and all you want at this age is to fit in. (at least I know I did)

You should just remember that the size of your penis doesn't matter. If a girl ever rejects you because your dick is "too small" she is a person not worth dating. You don't want someone judging you for something you can't change

my rant is done now hahaha

[Bluebyrd]

Roger that

[Pittsburgh]

I have read on here that some girls have preferences but it is what it is !