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Cadanance00
December 23rd, 2015, 09:44 AM
What did your parents say when they found out you're having sex (if you're having sex) and how did they find out?

sweettayla
December 23rd, 2015, 10:41 AM
I don't know if they know for sure, l'm pretty sure my mum does but they've never said anything about it.

Poontang King117
December 23rd, 2015, 11:18 AM
They were silent, my dad I know was cool with it, but mom was shocked. After she dropped me off in my dorm room, she looked in the wrong bag and saw a box of condoms, I had just bought a few hours before.

ashleigh7
December 23rd, 2015, 11:21 AM
I'm not sure how she found out or if she really knew. But she sat us down one weekend and had the mother daughter "talk"...sooooo much fun that was. : ) on occasion she will ask if everything is "ok". Mom's are very good at stuff like that. I know she loves me...but it's kinda weird talking to her about it...ya know?

Jaime2015
December 23rd, 2015, 01:36 PM
My mom talked to me and my sister at same time and explained first time we seen her naked well we was all naked but we explored each other

Leon03
December 23rd, 2015, 02:44 PM
My dad kind of proudly took me aside and reminded me to not forget what he had told me about protection and everything before.

redrider12
December 24th, 2015, 12:46 AM
My parents are keenly aware. I straight up told my dad because I trust him and he's really chill about everything. He basically said that whenever I need, I can take a few dollars from his wallet to buy protection. My mom, though... She knows, but I'm not really sure she likes the idea much. She doesn't agree much with my choice of partners when I bring them home

LanaPole
December 24th, 2015, 06:52 AM
my parents just asked me to be careful. theyre cool with it.

ClaraWho
December 24th, 2015, 08:45 AM
Oh hell to the No.

This will never happen, not least because it is a taboo topic for them (oh thank gosh).

~ Clara

Zachary G
December 24th, 2015, 11:39 AM
My mom is the only one who knows about my sex life and she kinda figured it out on her own by some of the things that I was doing and the one person I was hanging out with.

When she was sure, she had a talk with me about it and asked me questions about my being safe, if I was in a relationship, and stuff like that. Then she told me she wasnt happy that I was having sex at such a young age, but there wasnt much she could do about it, so for me to just be careful and take care of myself.

So, she was pretty cool about it, and we both promised never to tell my dad.

prtygurl
December 24th, 2015, 05:03 PM
Oh hell to the No.

This will never happen, not listen because it is a taboo topic for them (oh thank gosh).

~ Clara
I'm sorry, Clara, I don't understand your post.

ClaraWho
December 24th, 2015, 08:23 PM
I'm sorry, Clara, I don't understand your post.

Fixed the autocorrect typo, thanks for drawing my attention to it!

~ Clara

sweettayla
December 24th, 2015, 09:02 PM
Fixed the autocorrect typo, thanks for drawing my attention to it!

~ Clara

So do they know you're having sex with you brother or not?

Canadian Dream
December 24th, 2015, 09:17 PM
These are the actual reactions I got:

Mom: What???

Dad: Son, don't forget to always use protection!

:P

Karkat
December 24th, 2015, 09:55 PM
Mine nearly disowned me.

They found out because I apparently left my phone open to texts with my boyfriend at the time, whom they didn't know I was with.

ashdyn
December 25th, 2015, 12:28 PM
They know...they just don't acknowledge it at all lol

KellyNC
December 27th, 2015, 12:06 AM
I think with mine there wasn't really one event, just a growing suspicion until it kind of became obvious and presumed. My mom asked me if I was using protection and continuing to take B/C. Otherwise not a lot really changed to be honest.

biancachica
December 27th, 2015, 12:28 PM
Once I got my first serious bf I think my parents knew it was going to happen. I don't think they were worried, but they made sure we were safe.

BlackParadePixie
December 27th, 2015, 06:05 PM
My mom told me to be safe and smart, and that I should come talk to her if I had any questions or concerns.

Shiny Moon
December 28th, 2015, 04:15 AM
They just asked me to be careful and reminded me about a few topics of the talk.

ClaraWho
December 28th, 2015, 03:35 PM
So do they know you're having sex with you brother or not?

There I was thinking 'Oh hell to the No, never' would have answered that question.....

~ Clara

sweettayla
December 28th, 2015, 08:51 PM
There I was thinking 'Oh hell to the No, never' would have answered that question.....

~ Clara[/QUOTE]
So in plain English, no they don't?

mattsmith48
December 28th, 2015, 09:45 PM
My mom found a used condoms in my room she just told she doesn't care what I do just to be safe when doing it

RJH98
December 29th, 2015, 04:05 PM
well I'm not as open to the people in the real world as I am on here, im just not as comfortable talking about it (working on that). I haven't told my parents yet but I think they know by the lack of condoms on my drawer that used to be there haha

NCronter99
January 6th, 2016, 07:19 PM
My parents were cool about it. They talked to me about using protection. My mom actually offered for me to get on birth control

ClaraWho
January 6th, 2016, 07:49 PM
There I was thinking 'Oh hell to the No, never' would have answered that question.....

~ Clara
So in plain English, no they don't?[/QUOTE]

In plain English?

The words 'No' and 'never' aren't plain English?

Really?!

~ Clara

nicole97
January 6th, 2016, 07:52 PM
I know my mom had a suspicions, but there wasn't a moment where she found something or (god forbid) saw something. After a while, when I was pretty sure she knew, I asked her about starting on birth control and while it probably made her a bit uncomfortable she agreed and talked to me about it.

Maria16 Here
January 6th, 2016, 09:04 PM
They were cool with it.

GeorgeBoy
January 7th, 2016, 12:35 PM
100% they dont know that i have sex so many times

Ricky.h
January 8th, 2016, 06:24 AM
What did your parents say when they found out you're having sex (if you're having sex) and how did they find out?

Dad- was proud and happy told me to safe and not get anyone pregnant (it happened a few times though)

Mom- shocked that her baby was growing up

But now my house is so chill i literally can have and has had sex on the couch and been seen by my parents and they didn't say anything (so many other situations like that are common)

tulolita2015
January 8th, 2016, 07:03 AM
My house they all know now. :-(

Katie96xox
January 23rd, 2016, 10:31 AM
My mum discovered I was sexually active when she walked in on me and my then girlfriend. She has told me that I should never be afraid or embarrassed about sex and that she trusts me to make the right decisions regarding sex. I think my dad also knows I'm sexually active but I've never discussed anything remotely sexual with him.