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RSDYoungster
December 22nd, 2015, 08:27 AM
Hey guys,
Does anyone need any advice on dating, relationships and attraction?
Let me know and I can help you out, I have a lot of experience in this area.
RSDYoungster
tracykey
December 22nd, 2015, 09:06 AM
Hello! Thanks for such a thread here. I like one girl from my neighbourhood, but we does not actually know me. Haw can I approach her if I am a very shy guy?
RSDYoungster
December 22nd, 2015, 10:19 AM
Hello! Thanks for such a thread here. I like one girl from my neighbourhood, but we does not actually know me. Haw can I approach her if I am a very shy guy?
What you have here is something called approach anxiety.
This is very normal and is hard wired into our brains since tribal times. Basically your brain is telling you that you are not enough for this girl and that being rejected will be bad.
Since it is not your first time seeing this girl, the next time you see her dont think- just walk up to her.
Now once you get over there what do you say?
Once you are comfortable you can apprach girls with saying anything, but in your situation use an indirect opener.
I do not have any examples of these, you should search them up.
The way I would do it is to go up to her and take a hold of her hands. I would then say as doing that;
I saw you from other there and thought you were cute, I had to come over and say hi.
Now, If you are unconfortable with saying this you can take parts of that to make it less hard for you, as you are shy.
You can go up to her and say;
Hey, I saw you from over there and thought you had an interesting style- my name is traceykey.
You can basically say anything as long as you have GOOD BODY LANGUAGE AND TONE OF VOICE
Hope this helps,
RSDYoungster
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