Teaching Younger Brother

[jacobe]

Recently I've noticed that my brother has begun puberty and I would like to teach him about masturbation. What is the best way to go about doing this (should I let him catch me) and how can I make sure that this is an experience that brings us closer together?

[Vermilion]

I'd see what he knows first and go from there. He mite not want to talk about it just let him know that you are there for him.

[Sherman]

Don't feel like you have to teach him. Everyone is different and just because you want to teach him, doesn't mean hr wants to have that experience.

[lliam]

The question is: Has he asked you?

If so, then teach him all your Wisdom of Masterbating.

If no - don't deprive him about making his own experiences.

[Salad_Baby]

He'll probably learn about it himself. Don't feel like you need to teach him anything.. it would be awful for you to approach him, only for it him to be weirded out.

[ashdaniel]

Well, each one have different way to learn about masturbation and stuff. Does your brother want to learn? If your brother and you are close, you can just casually talk it out.

[Baileyy]

The question is: Has he asked you?

If so, then teach him all your Wisdom of Masterbating.

If no - don't deprive him about making his own experiences.

I believe this is the way you should go.

He doesn't necessarily need (or want) teaching.

[SethfromMI]

I mean most figure it out on their own. if he asks, you can tell him. if not, he will figure it out

[Blake24]

My younger brother asked me recently if I could show him how to jack off. In the end I agreed and I pulled up some porn for us to watch and we both ended getting boners and that's when I showed him how to jack off. I just told him to do what I do.

[JavierDolan]

I think you should ask him if he wants to be taught. See how he responds and go from there. It's going to be a rewarding experience either way.

[dysterian]

I think you should ask him if he wants to be taught. See how he responds and go from there. It's going to be a rewarding experience either way.

Exactly!

[hairy balls]

He'll probably learn about it himself. Don't feel like you need to teach him anything..
I don't know how old you or he is but don't get into trouble for dealing with a minor even if he is your brother

[Second Chance]

Recently I've noticed that my brother has begun puberty and I would like to teach him about masturbation. What is the best way to go about doing this (should I let him catch me) and how can I make sure that this is an experience that brings us closer together?

Unless your brother brings up puberty questions to you, then I would not recommend jumping into showing him how to masturbate or doing anything sexual with him. You can tell your brother if he has any questions he can come to you, but leave it up to him on what he decides to do. Just don't make your brother your jacking buddy or something along those lines because it will only lead to problems. If you just want to be a guide for him, then that's fine, but just be careful that you don't go beyond helping him with his questions.

[zaccary]

The way I found out how to jerk off was walking in on my older brother. You could "accidentally" let him see you masturbating yourself, and i'm sure that would kickstart his curiosity.

[Young Wolf]

Its strange but we all develop over differing time scales - I have two 15 year old mates who dont masturbate yet or have pubes.

[bbwolf26]

Yeah you should probably wait to see if he is ready. Let him know that he can ask you about anything.

[alexusa]

you should let him catch you, then talk about it so that he notices that it is no big deal and that everybody does it! also if he gets caught by you one day he will not feel embarrassed. maybe you will even jerk off together and even more, watch porn together,...

[Zachary G]

The question is: Has he asked you?

If so, then teach him all your Wisdom of Masterbating.

If no - don't deprive him about making his own experiences.

Totally agree with this^^, very well said.

[Bluebyrd]

I don't think that's a good idea. If he asks you then fair enough but if not, let him figure it out himself.

[Sean4U]

Agree with most of what has been said. He will approach you if he has questions if you just let him know you will talk if he has the need. I have 3 brothers and we all have caught each other from time to time and have masturbated together as well. Masturbation is a normal innate urge and at some point he will either learn on his own, pick it up from porn, and then maybe ask you about it. Don't force anything, let it come naturally.

[RJH98]

just let him know that if he has any questions he can come to you without any awkwardness

[Skywalker007]

He will probably just do the same as you (I guess) and find out for himself. If you really want to talk with him about this topic you could go for a simple question about puberty and see if he wants to talk to you or not.

[pjones]

maybe wait to see if he asks questions. you can show him educational sites, but really don't show him porn. not sure how old you both are but younger boys don't need to be watching porn in my opinion.

[football matt]

I caught my older bro then we talked about it. IDK if he "let" me catch him but that's how it worked out. How old are U2

[Harrier]

Why does this keep coming up? I thought it was weird the first time I head of it lol. I have a younger brother and have NEVER thought about teaching him to masturbate. I assume he knows how. Plus we joke around enough about it for so long I assume he can come to me if he has any questions. I had no older and figured it out just fine lol. You can even say I'm a master at masturbation.

[jacobe]

My brothers 13 and I'm 16. I just figured it could serve as a good bonding experience and that it could bring us closer and make us more open about things like this.

[bfldworker]

Jacking off is pretty much instinctual. That said. My brother thought me. Told me what to do and when I fumbled he showed me by jacking himself off. And every once in a while we Jack off together. And yes it is very messy.

[Pert]

I'm pretty sure he'll figure it out himself. Don't approach him because it would be weird or embarrassing for him, only talk to him if he asks you.

I've never taught my younger brother how to jerk off, and I'm sure he figured it out on his own. He knows he can come to me if he has any questions - he just asked me a couple of questions about girls.

[RiHouse]

I think you should ask him. See if he wants you to teach or not, and if so, how he wants you to each him. If that's physically or just explaining. Either way I think it's fine.

[Jacob12]

I'm an older brother of many. With the way today age like it is he most likely already knows. You don't wanna seem awkward by talking to him about it. Being the older brother you could just tell him you are there for him if he ever needs to talk about anything like that. Don't approach him with the idea because it could make him feel weird and think you are weird.

Do what you think is best in this situation

[mychalo]

I wouldn't say anything unless he asks. I was able to talk about stuff with my oldest brother. I'm a late developer and he noticed so he let me know he was too which was really helpful. And if I needed to I could have asked him about masturbating, but I didn't have to cause my friends told me about it when they started. I've seen one of my younger brothers masturbating under the covers and I know he didn't ask any of us about it, so he figured it out. Your brother will too I bet.

[Mikeymic]

Yeah, let him ask you on his own. If not, I'm sure he'll be fine. Dont pressure him or anything

[hairy palmer]

I got a younger bro n we share a room so he just sorta learnt but my older brother showed me so I reckon I should ask him f we should do it together. I know he wanks we're not shy but I haven't wanked wife my older bro since he showed me so I dunno if he'd b into it :metal: