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BabyGMarie

December 21st, 2015, 11:04 AM

Hey guys this question if for the gay/lez & bi females. I wanted to know is it possible for a female to lose her virginity to a dildo or strap on ? Btw im bi

Hermes

December 25th, 2015, 07:23 PM

I think you need to think about what the concept means to two girls in a relationship.

Traditionally men valued female virginity going into marriage as he would then know that any child his wife had would be his [assuming she doesn't start cheating only once the marriage has started]. Male virginity was of little interest until relatively recently where some guys see it as a burden.

So, immediately you are in a relationship which will not directly bear children the original concept no longer applies directly but one part of it, reserving a certain type or level of sexual activity for a serious/long-term partner remains relevant but you're now free to say where you should draw that line. You could choose the closest thing to penis-in-vagina sex, for example using a strap-on but it doesn't have to be that.

sweettayla

December 25th, 2015, 07:32 PM

Hey guys this question if for the gay/lez & bi females. I wanted to know is it possible for a female to lose her virginity to a dildo or strap on ? Btw im bi
No, it needs to be a penis unless society has changed it's views in the last minute or two.

SkyClad33605

December 26th, 2015, 11:56 PM

Sasha M

January 4th, 2016, 03:48 PM

Virginity is an outdated concept from back when women were property.

Don't waste another minute worrying about if you are or aren't a virgin.

Being a virgin doesn't make you pure, or good, or wholesome. Not being a virgin doesn't make you bad, or dirty, or a slut.

:)

As much as this is feminist rant, its some what true.
Virginity is still a thing, but you definitely shouldn't care.

Just live life.

If you REALLY care, virginity is dictated by biological genitalia, not items. Again though, dont worry about it.