I thought something and now I'm not sure...

[IloveAsa]

Okay so I grew up in a Christian household and didn't know where babies came from or any of that kind of thing until like 4th grade I just knew from friends (which is normal I think, tbh idk) anyway, I was put into a class at my church in 6th grade. I was already incredibly confused about what I liked, I thought I liked girls, but then i just started not being turned on by them and was turned on by guys, in 8th grade (long story short) shit went down I denounced my god and became atheist then a few months later acknowledged that voice in my head what I was trying to force (being straight) wasn't quite working out. I was gay since then (obviously shortened to keep this short). It's almost been two years, and I really don't know, I never really had a crush on any girls but I have been majorly crushing over these two guys in my grade (we're pretty good friends), but other than them two I'm not really turned on by that many guys or girls. I'm just really confused, I'm not straight that much is clear, I might be gay idk, I might be asexual. I'm so confused I don't know what I am.

(Stories were generalised to keep this somewhat short.)

[HououinKiyoma]

Hormones at work. Dont worry happens to almost everyone irrespective of gender.

[Hudor]

It is possible you haven't find that many guys you find attractive. I wouldn't worry too much about this and you could also rule out asexual if you do find someone sexually attractive.

[Hermes]

Have you ever heard a straight guy talk about whether a girl is "his type"? I think most people would probably be capable of performing with just about anyone from the sex they prefer if that person was the only one available but that doesn't mean they are so attracted to everyone of that sex they feel the need to chat them up.

[IloveAsa]

Have you ever heard a straight guy talk about whether a girl is "his type"? I think most people would probably be capable of performing with just about anyone from the sex they prefer if that person was the only one available but that doesn't mean they are so attracted to everyone of that sex they feel the need to chat them up.

Forgive me, but I'm a bit confused, can you please explain that a little better please?

[Straya]

Forgive me, but I'm a bit confused, can you please explain that a little better please?

what he was saying is that most straight guys dont find all girls attractive but even if an ugly one offered them sex they would take it and the same works with gay guys. just cause you dont find most guys attractive dosent mean your any less gay and you might just find your two friends attractive cause you know them so well

[Exotic Babe]

Why even label yourself? Just be you and don't puzzle over what you could be labeled as.

[outback4]

some straight people don't find a bunch of girls attractive, just a few certain ones.

I would say you're the same way, you only find some guys near you attractive, but others out there might be attractive in your mind and you just haven't seen them yet.

don't worry about it really. if you're gay (and personally I think you are, THATS OK) then that's fine. If you're asexual, that's fine! it's all fine! what's the point in really even worrying about it that much. go with the flow and be attracted to the people you're attracted to. like the girl above said, don't label yourself until you figure it out more :)

[thatonekidjacob]

Okay so I grew up in a Christian household and didn't know where babies came from or any of that kind of thing until like 4th grade I just knew from friends (which is normal I think, tbh idk) anyway, I was put into a class at my church in 6th grade. I was already incredibly confused about what I liked, I thought I liked girls, but then i just started not being turned on by them and was turned on by guys, in 8th grade (long story short) shit went down I denounced my god and became atheist then a few months later acknowledged that voice in my head what I was trying to force (being straight) wasn't quite working out. I was gay since then (obviously shortened to keep this short). It's almost been two years, and I really don't know, I never really had a crush on any girls but I have been majorly crushing over these two guys in my grade (we're pretty good friends), but other than them two I'm not really turned on by that many guys or girls. I'm just really confused, I'm not straight that much is clear, I might be gay idk, I might be asexual. I'm so confused I don't know what I am.

(Stories were generalised to keep this somewhat short.)

I don't know if this helps but I'm gay and I'm a Christian. A lot are close minded, but not all are. I know a lot of gays are atheists. I'm not saying you have to believe, but it's cool if you do. Don't listen to people that don't know there own religion.