im going bak in the closet

[ZACK0]

Hey guys, so im going back into the closet :( i just cant take all this judgment and shit anymore

[northy]

Hey guys, so im going back into the closet :( i just cant take all this judgment and shit anymore
I don't quite understand how you can go back in the closet. Do you tell people that you're straight and that it was a joke?

[Abyssal Echo]

Hey guys, so im going back into the closet :( i just cant take all this judgment and shit anymore

I don't quite understand how you can go back in the closet. Do you tell people that you're straight and that it was a joke?

I'm with northy how can you go back into the closet ?

[Bluebyrd]

I don't quite understand how you can go back in the closet. Do you tell people that you're straight and that it was a joke?
Roger that

[Babs]

What are you going to say, "jk I'm actually straight, you can all stop judging me now"? And would you pretend to be straight forever, or would you eventually come out again at a later point?

Frankly I think it'd be easier to push through it. I know it sucks, but these are the cards you've been dealt, and sometimes you have to make the best of a shitty situation.

Hang in there, man.

[ZACK0]

Im gonna just tell everyone im going through a stage and im actually straight

[Hudor]

I think going back into the closet not only to refers to denying all statements a person had made related to coming out(by probably passing them off as jokes) but also behaving(acting) to convince people about it. I would include professing crushes(possible fake) on girls, if you're a gay guy, or dating lots of girls to convince people you were going through a phase and probably misjudged your sexuality. This form of denial is tougher than being in the closet, i think, because you have to be more assertive in repressing your true self and that only means a lot of mental unrest for you. As Satan said, i would suggest you to push on through it because such denial is only going to be more harmful for you, physically and mentally, in the long run than the harm that could come from teasing, bullying etc.


What are you going to say, "jk I'm actually straight, you can all stop judging me now"? And would you pretend to be straight forever, or would you eventually come out again at a later point?

Frankly I think it'd be easier to push through it. I know it sucks, but these are the cards you've been dealt, and sometimes you have to make the best of a shitty situation.

Hang in there, man.

I agree with this post unless it's a situation where it's essential for you to be in the closet. For example, if your parents are not accepting your sexuality and if things come to the worst, it might be better to remain in the closet or if you have revealed, to deny it at least until you're financially stable and able to sustain yourself if you don't have support. Sorry if the last bit probably came off as morbid.

[Slashman1]

Hey guys, so im going back into the closet :( i just cant take all this judgment and shit anymore
judgement happens to everybody straight or gay everybody judges everybody just try not to listen to people going back into the closet will hurt you more then the judgements because you will know that your lying to yourself and everybody once you come out its best to stay out being in or going back in is torture im sadly still in the closet and im sad a lot i wish i could come out like you did

[Cadanance00]

I know somebody like you. He changed schools and went back in the closet. He couldn't take all the shit gays get here.

[SethfromMI]

unfortunately once it is out there, it always will be out there. I am sorry your going through so much but it might be better to try to keep your head up and go forward with. trying to deny stuff now is only going to make it worse in the long run

[Jinglebottom]

Once you're out, there's no going back. Better to live the way you are, than to delude yourself into becoming something you're not.

[lliam]

Im gonna just tell everyone im going through a stage and im actually straight

Are you really such a good actor?
I have my doubts that this really works.

It would be better to learn to deal with the reactions to getting more relaxed. In the end that lets you handle similar situations plenty more easier in your life.

What you doing is immure yourself alive.

[Falcons_11]

Once you're out, there's no going back. Better to live the way you are, than to delude yourself into becoming something you're not.

Only way to accomplish this successfully would be to enter the Witness Protection Program and move to another city.

[SkyClad33605]

If you thinking lying to everyone will save you from judgement you're mistaken.

People will always judge you regardless of whether you are gay or straight or whatever.

All we can do is rise above the judgement. Ultimately it's not their opinion that matters but yours. Our lives are very short, don't waste a minute of your lying to yourself in an attempt to please others.

[Stronger]

In the long run your only hurting yourself more by hiding who you really are because now your lying not only to people but yourself. Your best bet try and find people who are in the same boat as you or find people who you can talk to where you know you won't be judged.

[Zachary G]

Hey guys, so im going back into the closet :( i just cant take all this judgment and shit anymore

So, why are you going back in? Did you forget something in there?

Theres really no way to "go back in" once youve come out. What difference does it make about all of the "judgement and shit" that you encounter. If you wait to come out again later its still going to be there, just in a different form. If you dont learn to deal with it now, you will never deal with it and continue to run away from difficult situations every time you encounter them.

You are going to do what you are going to do, but I think its the wrong move and you will only be setting yourself up for future turmoil.

[ptz7649]

That may not change the way that peop,e think about you. You may also be making a mistake... If in the future years, you might want to get with your preferred gender and then you would have to come out again! If you really think that's what best, go ahead but please think it through
Best of luck

[Straya]

Roger that

ahahaha one of the best responses iv seen