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DJGlossy
December 19th, 2015, 12:44 AM
So like all my life i knew i was different because like in day-care i used to play with girls and play with barbie dolls and then when i went to elementary i had mostly friends especially this one girl. We hung out with each other all the time and kids would call me gay because i would run away and cry and hung out with only girls and she'd be the one to stand up for me. This one summer i got a girlfriend towards the end of summer we kissed i felt nothing except a sloppy wet lips against mine then in middle school i was not attracted to any of the girls. so like the second semester of 6th grade i was ditching with friends and i lost them and i was safe then i heard running i thought it was a teacher or the vice principle and the i want the wrong way and crashed into this 12th grader then there was this odd feeling of (uh-oh yandere moment) excitement and love and i basically stalked him, no kidding, got mad at the boys and girls for touching him i still didn't know this feeling so i used my buddy google i found out it was called being gay now i'm in high school grown some feelings towards women it like 9% for women but 91% for guys should i consider my self gay or bisexual? and sorry it long but i needed to get everything out of me:confused:

Hudor
December 19th, 2015, 01:10 AM
An important thing to understand is that there is no should or ought here. You choose the label that you identify with comfortably.
If you consider yourself almost exclusively gay, you could consider yourself that. If you feel you would want to be with a girl in future, you could consider yourself bi. Also, i would say wait a few years before you label yourself as anything because things change a lot during puberty and lead to massive confusions.

ptz7649
December 19th, 2015, 07:15 PM
I don't know you but from your description: gay? Or if in the future you find more attraction towards another girl: bisexual or pansexual