I have never mastubated/ cummed/ been sexually interested in someone

[Jack5]

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[Baileyy]

Hi there Jack, Pokebails here!

I think you're extremely mature; allow that to be my first statement. I just think you're not quite as hormonal (or horny) as most teenagers around the age of 14-18, which is perfectly fine.

If sexual activity, whether it be masturbation, oral sex, anal sex or vaginal sex doesn't concern or interest you right now - then you aren't obliged to do it or get involved in it brother. You say
So the only way I see me as being able to involve myself in sexual activity is with other guys.
Why exactly is this? Is it just because you don't really find anything sexually alluring about females, I'm not too sure and am just wondering :P

Anyway, I wouldn't encourage you to 'offer yourself as a living sex doll' to anyone unless that's actually what you want. Don't feel obligated to do that just because you have no intention or desire to be the one giving and not receiving brother.

Now, in answer to your actual questions; if you want children, then you're gonna' have to have sex (surprise!). I'm sure when the times comes when you're emotionally and mentally ready for children the concept will be much more attractive to you, I have no doubts about that. You will not lose the ability to ejaculate if you don't cum, I very highly doubt your genitals will become 'inactive'.

I think you're just a rare case of a non-horny teenager, Jack! :P
Best of luck, and feel free to quote my post if you have any questions!! :)

[bruhh15]

Hi there Jack, Pokebails here!

I think you're extremely mature; allow that to be my first statement. I just think you're not quite as hormonal (or horny) as most teenagers around the age of 14-18, which is perfectly fine.

If sexual activity, whether it be masturbation, oral sex, anal sex or vaginal sex doesn't concern or interest you right now - then you aren't obliged to do it or get involved in it brother. You say

Why exactly is this? Is it just because you don't really find anything sexually alluring about females, I'm not too sure and am just wondering :P

Anyway, I wouldn't encourage you to 'offer yourself as a living sex doll' to anyone unless that's actually what you want. Don't feel obligated to do that just because you have no intention or desire to be the one giving and not receiving brother.

Now, in answer to your actual questions; if you want children, then you're gonna' have to have sex (surprise!). I'm sure when the times comes when you're emotionally and mentally ready for children the concept will be much more attractive to you, I have no doubts about that. You will not lose the ability to ejaculate if you don't cum, I very highly doubt your genitals will become 'inactive'.

I think you're just a rare case of a non-horny teenager, Jack! :P
Best of luck, and feel free to quote my post if you have any questions!! :)

Yep!

[ashdyn]

You could be asexual. That exists too.

[Jack5]

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[Jack5]

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[Baileyy]

- Maybe I need to feel affection/ fall in real love with someone before I can make love with them. Maybe it's that I need to be mentally attracted to someone as well as physically attracted in order to get aroused? At least I can still ejaculate/ make semen if that time ever comes! That's a lot more reassuring.

Thanks for your opinion :)

I absolutely believe this paragraph is what you need to believe. :)

[Jack5]

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[hairy balls]

hi yes I think You could be asexual.
That exists too.
don't rush it
just enjoy ,what ever u do
and no you DON,T have to offer your bum to have fun

[Bluebyrd]

I think you're asexual...

[Hermes]

Others have pointed out that some people naturally don't have sexual feelings for other people and that can be referred to with the label asexual. For someone who is normal in every other respect giving something a name like that can help but I wouldn't rush to do that too soon.

You mention that you have never felt the desire to masturbate and have never cum and then spend most of the post discussing attraction to other people. That makes me think you think that being horny is something that happens when you see someone sexually attractive and, as you don't find people sexually attractive, you don't get horny.

For me, and I suspect many others, it is almost the other way round. I get horny regardless of interaction with other people. If I was to take a trip to a deserted island for a few days (not long enough for the isolation to be depressing) I can pretty much guarantee that I'd still get horny and I'd still enjoy responding to that by masturbating. I also remember back to when I started puberty and I remember becoming mich more aware of my penis, that it suddenly seemed more interesting and that started to touch it and also that I had an instict to hump the bed. None of that seemed related to anyone else.

So, being horny is due to hormones, mostly testosterone. If you don't get horny then that is likely to be down to one of two things: either that your testosterone level is low or that the parts of the brain that would normally respond to it are different in your brain and do not respond in the usual way. The latter, i.e. the brain response, is unlikely to change and that is where one might adopt the label of asexual. The former, i.e. low testosterone, can be treated and so this whole situation is something you should discuss with your doctor.

The difference between the two possible causes is also significant for the other point you raised of future children. If your lack of sexual interest is caused by low testosterone then it is also likely that some of the glands that are part of the reproductive system have not fully developed (yet) and thus without treatment it would indeed be very hard to have children. If it is just the brain doesn't react then there would be some possibilities if you found someone you loved who had the patience. You could try viagra (to get an erection) or maybe just stroking with your hand - just because you don't feel the need doesn't mean you can do it - and then when it's hard put it in. If you were successful getting it hard by hand the motion should be sufficient to keep it so long enough to cum and ejaculation is a reflex.

Back to the relationship between horniness and attraction once one feels horny he then tends to find he sees the sexual potential in other people, either girls, guys or a mixture of both such that whoever he is attracted to can become the focus of that horniness. In one of the forms of asexuality this focusing does not happen leaving someone who gets horny, and masturbates, but doesn't find other people sexually attractive.

[Hudor]

Others have pointed out that some people naturally don't have sexual feelings for other people and that can be referred to with the label asexual. For someone who is normal in every other respect giving something a name like that can help but I wouldn't rush to do that too soon.

You mention that you have never felt the desire to masturbate and have never cum and then spend most of the post discussing attraction to other people. That makes me think you think that being horny is something that happens when you see someone sexually attractive and, as you don't find people sexually attractive, you don't get horny.

For me, and I suspect many others, it is almost the other way round. I get horny regardless of interaction with other people. If I was to take a trip to a deserted island for a few days (not long enough for the isolation to be depressing) I can pretty much guarantee that I'd still get horny and I'd still enjoy responding to that by masturbating. I also remember back to when I started puberty and I remember becoming mich more aware of my penis, that it suddenly seemed more interesting and that started to touch it and also that I had an instict to hump the bed. None of that seemed related to anyone else.

So, being horny is due to hormones, mostly testosterone. If you don't get horny then that is likely to be down to one of two things: either that your testosterone level is low or that the parts of the brain that would normally respond to it are different in your brain and do not respond in the usual way. The latter, i.e. the brain response, is unlikely to change and that is where one might adopt the label of asexual. The former, i.e. low testosterone, can be treated and so this whole situation is something you should discuss with your doctor.

The difference between the two possible causes is also significant for the other point you raised of future children. If your lack of sexual interest is caused by low testosterone then it is also likely that some of the glands that are part of the reproductive system have not fully developed (yet) and thus without treatment it would indeed be very hard to have children. If it is just the brain doesn't react then there would be some possibilities if you found someone you loved who had the patience. You could try viagra (to get an erection) or maybe just stroking with your hand - just because you don't feel the need doesn't mean you can do it - and then when it's hard put it in. If you were successful getting it hard by hand the motion should be sufficient to keep it so long enough to cum and ejaculation is a reflex.

Back to the relationship between horniness and attraction once one feels horny he then tends to find he sees the sexual potential in other people, either girls, guys or a mixture of both such that whoever he is attracted to can become the focus of that horniness. In one of the forms of asexuality this focusing does not happen leaving someone who gets horny, and masturbates, but doesn't find other people sexually attractive.

This ^
I think you should take up everything with the doctor next time.

[ska8er]

I think u have a bad case of nerves.

If all u say u cant do is true then I
would check with a medical doctor and
ask him the same questions.

Ur questions r valid.