Eddie.37
December 17th, 2015, 08:54 AM
Ok story time:
We met in a class we had together last year but weren't really close until last March when we attended a party together and got to talk about stuff. Next day he sends me a message saying I was fun to be with and that we should go out for a few drinks sometime. I guess we really got close over the summer when we'd talk about the most random things almost every night. When the semester started this year at uni, we had three classes together and we started spending more time together. While we don't necessarily sit together in class, he sometimes sits beside me when the person beside me isn't in class. He'd randomly ask me out for lunch, even dinner sometimes. He'll wait for me after my last class and he'd walk with me up to the road leading to my dorm even if it'll make the walk to his car in the parking lot longer. We had that drink together last Halloween when the two of us went bar hopping (kinda) and I got too drunk so he had to take me up to my dorm room. Aside from that, we'd also text a lot and wish each other good luck when the other had exams or just tell each other we had fun with each other's company after we'd go out, and when we're meeting up for lunch or dinner he insists he pick me up and take me home afterwards in his car even though I've told him that I'd rather walk or take public transport.
Basically, we're really close and spend a weird amount of time together that a lot of our friends have begun to notice and they keep asking me if we were already boyfriends. While I like him as a friend, I've started giving the idea some thought and I'd be fine if he and I ended up together. All my friends say he gets their gaydars pinging, although I asked him once and he tells me he's straight and I believe what he says because he's my friend and I respect that.
But with all the cute/flirty texts he randomly sends, and the fact that one time my roommate (our mutual friend) showed me his message thread with him and it's all friendly bro stuff, but his message thread with me is mostly i'd like to know you better/what are your interests stuff, I'm actually really confused with how to interpret his signals.
All my friends are telling me to go for it, that he's probably just saying he's straight, but I don't wanna force myself onto him because I respect his statement that he is straight even if it completely erases all possibility of us being in a romantic relationship because I am completely fine with a platonic relationship.
IDK, what do you guys think???:confused::confused::confused:
We met in a class we had together last year but weren't really close until last March when we attended a party together and got to talk about stuff. Next day he sends me a message saying I was fun to be with and that we should go out for a few drinks sometime. I guess we really got close over the summer when we'd talk about the most random things almost every night. When the semester started this year at uni, we had three classes together and we started spending more time together. While we don't necessarily sit together in class, he sometimes sits beside me when the person beside me isn't in class. He'd randomly ask me out for lunch, even dinner sometimes. He'll wait for me after my last class and he'd walk with me up to the road leading to my dorm even if it'll make the walk to his car in the parking lot longer. We had that drink together last Halloween when the two of us went bar hopping (kinda) and I got too drunk so he had to take me up to my dorm room. Aside from that, we'd also text a lot and wish each other good luck when the other had exams or just tell each other we had fun with each other's company after we'd go out, and when we're meeting up for lunch or dinner he insists he pick me up and take me home afterwards in his car even though I've told him that I'd rather walk or take public transport.
Basically, we're really close and spend a weird amount of time together that a lot of our friends have begun to notice and they keep asking me if we were already boyfriends. While I like him as a friend, I've started giving the idea some thought and I'd be fine if he and I ended up together. All my friends say he gets their gaydars pinging, although I asked him once and he tells me he's straight and I believe what he says because he's my friend and I respect that.
But with all the cute/flirty texts he randomly sends, and the fact that one time my roommate (our mutual friend) showed me his message thread with him and it's all friendly bro stuff, but his message thread with me is mostly i'd like to know you better/what are your interests stuff, I'm actually really confused with how to interpret his signals.
All my friends are telling me to go for it, that he's probably just saying he's straight, but I don't wanna force myself onto him because I respect his statement that he is straight even if it completely erases all possibility of us being in a romantic relationship because I am completely fine with a platonic relationship.
IDK, what do you guys think???:confused::confused::confused: