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teenuser101
February 8th, 2014, 07:04 PM
I'm 17 and never had a relationship before. But recently I have become attracted to a girl in my year. We have spoken a few times but no real conversations if you know what I mean? We were both at a party this week at a mutual friend's house and she said to my face that she thinks I'm cute! (We were both mildly drunk if that makes a difference?)

So I know, at the very least, she doesn't NOT like me. This is the first time that a girl has ever said I'm cute :D

Anyway, at one point we were both alone in the kitchen and we were face to face with only like a couple of inches between us, and I had previously tried the 'touch barrier' thing and she didn't pull away when I rested my arm on hers when we were sitting down.

I think these signs mean she might actually quite like me but I don't really know die to inexperience. When we were face to face alone I was tempted to move in for a kiss but I wasn't confident enough.

I am really frustrated as this is the first time that I have had feelings for a girl and I don't know what to do with them!! Please help!

ImagineRepublicCity
February 9th, 2014, 12:36 AM
Well, if you really like her and you think she likes you back, then you should go for it. Just ask her if she's free on the weekend or something to go to a park or a cafe or the movies, anywhere really. If she's interested, she'll probably say yes. If she says no, it might be because she's busy or something but don't pester her about it because it makes you look desperate and annoying. Hope things go well for you. c:

Its Pretty
February 9th, 2014, 12:40 AM
Put a note in her locker with a box of chocolates and a picture of a flower and say it's from you

JollyToes
February 9th, 2014, 12:56 AM
Yeah I would say just ask her for a coffee or lunch. Make sure to do it in person...no asking a grl out via txt. Lol. Just keep it simple and you will for sure to be able to tell if there is chemistry there.

Synyster Shadows
February 9th, 2014, 01:22 AM
I agree with ronie. Just ask to go somewhere casual. Just relax and don't make too big a deal out of it