Girls: Would you be okay with this?

[NotQuiteANerd97]

Let's say you meet a boy and you start dating him. He turns out to be bisexual. And as you get to know him more, it turns out that he has only had sex with boys. Would you be okay with the fact that even though he is attracted to both sexes, he has no sexual experience with a girl?

[Vanilla Cupcake]

I wouldn't like that! I just want a guy that is into me and only me!

[Ashwells9991]

i wouldnt care

[Elysium]

Puberty for All :arrow: Relationships and Dating

Wouldn't bother me any.

I wouldn't like that! I just want a guy that is into me and only me!
In this hypothetical, the guy isn't cheating on you with other guys; he's just only had past experience with other guys. If you were to assume that anyone you date who's had experience with other people in the past isn't exclusively into you when you're dating them (as a result of their past experiences), you're going to have a hard time finding someone to date :P

[LanaPole]

i wont like that. it's a bit strange.

[Melodic]

I'm bisexual myself, so I wouldn't care at all.

[yeehaw]

I'm completely straight, and it wouldn't bother me at all.

[Babs]

It wouldn't bother me at all, being bisexual myself. I don't see why I should feel differently about it than if his previous experiences had been with girls.

[AutumnWinds]

Let's say you meet a boy and you start dating him. He turns out to be bisexual. And as you get to know him more, it turns out that he has only had sex with boys. Would you be okay with the fact that even though he is attracted to both sexes, he has no sexual experience with a girl?

it wouldn't bother me.

[Vanilla Cupcake]

Puberty for All :arrow: Relationships and Dating

Wouldn't bother me any.


In this hypothetical, the guy isn't cheating on you with other guys; he's just only had past experience with other guys. If you were to assume that anyone you date who's had experience with other people in the past isn't exclusively into you when you're dating them (as a result of their past experiences), you're going to have a hard time finding someone to date :P

Oh I see, I think I read it too quickly and misunderstood.
I guess it would be ok, I just don't understand the bisexual thing.
How can you like having sex with both sexes. Who do you choose to marry?
Does one kinda prefer one over the other as their ideal, but just doesn't mind doing both?

[Elysium]

Oh I see, I think I read it too quickly and misunderstood.
I guess it would be ok, I just don't understand the bisexual thing.
How can you like having sex with both sexes. Who do you choose to marry?
Does one kinda prefer one over the other as their ideal, but just doesn't mind doing both?
I mean, asking how that works doesn't really make sense, because obviously people do, whether or not you can relate. First of all, not everyone's love life revolves around the possibility of marriage; marriage isn't (and in my opinion shouldn't have to be) the be-all and end-all for lots of people. Second of all, if you do want to get married and you choose to do so, you marry whoever you fall in love with, ideally; if you identify as a sexuality other than gay or straight, you just have a wider pool of possibilities, but that doesn't automatically make you attracted to everyone and anyone.

Lastly, it differs from person to person. Sexuality is fluid and exists on a wide, fluctuating, indefinite spectrum like most things. What you described might be the experience of some people who identify as bisexual, but not others.

[BabyGMarie]

I dont think I would mind

[BlackParadePixie]

It wouldn't bother me

[tulolita2015]

I think I wouldn't bother me if he really decides to be with me. We are more open mind now than past generations. Like our parents, grandparents etc,