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TheRedViper
February 8th, 2014, 06:03 PM
So one of my friends has left my school and is doing a TAFE course, and we don't see each other much now. We occasionally text, but only when something actually needs to be said. A few weeks ago I asked if she wanted to catch up, and she said yes, so we did. I want to ask her to hang out again, this time to finish watching a show lent her, cause we both like it. I've gone over to her house a couple of times before, but this was when she took a while off school, so she wasn't really doing anything anyway. I get kind of worried that if I text her to ask if she wants to hang out she will be too busy, since she is very popular and has a lot of other friends. She told me last time we saw each other that she was very busy that day and had to see a lot of other people as well. I get kind of insecure because they're probably more popular and more like her than I am, even though we've been good friends for a year and a half.

Anyway, I was planning on asking her via text a bit later if she wanted to hang out, but I'm worried it will just annoy her, since she is probably busy and has other things to do.

Croconaw
February 8th, 2014, 06:17 PM
I think you should just text her. She can make time for you.

JollyToes
February 8th, 2014, 06:20 PM
Don't worry about what you think she has planned or what you think she is doing. There is nothing wrong w texting her and asking to hang out. By her making it a point to tell you she has all these people to hang out with sounds like she may be playing a little hard to get. :)