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riguy99
December 13th, 2015, 01:43 AM
Ever since I was in 8th grade, I knew I was not attracted to women. It took me about a year to figure out that I was gay. But recently, I have been confused. I feel sexually and romantically attracted to men, but I feel like I am romantically attracted to women now too, but not sexually. I have been putting so much thought on this lately I am not even sure what I am anymore.
Can anyone give their thoughts?
Termina
December 13th, 2015, 04:51 AM
That is exactly what has been happening to me. I have extremely high feelings for men, both sexually and romantically, however, I also feel romantically attracted to women as well. I'm thinking this is a form of Bisexuality which makes you lean towards to further side of homosexuality.
Hudor
December 13th, 2015, 06:32 AM
Well that description fits me too. I consider myself 3/4th gay therefore :P
You're probably bisexual. Now there are two things you can do about this:
1. Date both guys and girls to find out your sexuality. This is a bit faulty though if you don't find the right guy/girl and decide your sexuality on that basis.
2. You could just stop thinking about your sexuality and do what you feel happy doing regardless of the gender.
Sherman
December 15th, 2015, 09:12 AM
Exactly what the others say. As you go through puberty, your feelings might change as hormones start to level out or do whatever they do. I'm guessing you are bisexual but leaning more toward men rather than women.
I guess I could consider myself bisexual but I am probably about 70% attracted to women and 30% attracted to men but that attraction is still there. I probably could see myself dating both but you can't say until you find that person of the opposite sex or same sex that you have fallen for.
Bull
December 15th, 2015, 11:55 AM
I have been in committed relationships with both sexes. I reject labels. I am simply a sexual being. Don't over think this. Just be with people you enjoy, male and female, and let what happens happen.
riguy99
December 15th, 2015, 08:46 PM
Thanks everyone for there thoughts on this. It has really helped me a lot.
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