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Sheilae
December 12th, 2015, 06:23 PM
Hey guys,

So I'm 15, and I've never been in love. I never had a crush, never felt attracted to someone, and I don't know whether I'm straight, gay or bi.
Is this actually normal? Like, so many girls at my age have been in love. And if it is, at what age did you start getting these feelings?

Taryn98
December 12th, 2015, 07:01 PM
Don't let it bother you, everyone is different. It just means you haven't met the right person. When you do, you'll know.

angelina
December 13th, 2015, 02:13 AM
Don't let it bother you, everyone is different. It just means you haven't met the right person. When you do, you'll know.
Right answer...i agree with this one...The love will blossom when you meet a boy of your choice..

Sheilae
December 14th, 2015, 05:40 AM
Don't let it bother you, everyone is different. It just means you haven't met the right person. When you do, you'll know.
So, it isn't 'weird,' or something like that? And how do you know when you meet the right person? Like, sometimes I think somebody is pretty/handsome, but does that mean that I want to be their gf?

Falcons_11
December 14th, 2015, 05:15 PM
Never been in love yet. I do love my family and I like my friends.

Elysium
December 21st, 2015, 08:16 AM
Puberty for All :arrow: Relationships and Dating

SethfromMI
December 21st, 2015, 09:29 AM
your 15, you still got plenty of time to find someone

BabyGMarie
December 21st, 2015, 11:28 AM
I started to notice I was in love at 17

SillyShyGuy
December 23rd, 2015, 12:06 PM
It is normal not to have been in love by your age. Your body is probably different. It is better to wait until your heart chooses someone for you- girl or boy. I remember my first crush in second grade. I was 7 years old. I have never been in love until my last year in high school. Love is a special thing, do not rush it. I think from experience, it is better to wait for that special someone to reveal themselves.

redrider12
December 24th, 2015, 09:52 AM
I'm going to go out on a limb here and say that when you're 15, or even really in high school, you're not ever in "love". True love is a very interesting thing - but it's not something that's impervious to high schoolers.
But on a more direct note - I'd be glad. Girls are a pain in the butt sometimes. If you do find yourself into a certain girl soon, be ready to get subjected to some of the weirdest, most mentally challenging relationships you'll ever have.
But don't rush. You're 15. Nothing huge is going to happen that you'll miss. Most likely, the girls who are "in love" are only in that love for a sexual reason. And better off waiting at least until you really, really connect with someone

yeehaw
December 24th, 2015, 03:13 PM
It'll happen at some point, don't worry. (: