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pianoman4
February 8th, 2014, 04:15 PM
So I'm gay and my friend, who is a girl, is straight. Every now and then she asks me how I know I'm gay if i haven't a had sex with a guy. And I tell her that I don't need to have sex with a guy to know that I'm attracted to guys. This discussion usually escalates to the point where I say to her, "Well how do you know you're straight if you haven't had sex with a girl..." Then she gets angry at me and she says, "its not the same thing..." So what do you think?

joe_dare
February 8th, 2014, 04:20 PM
Poor girl probably fancies you

Hermes96
February 8th, 2014, 04:49 PM
i hate that argument tell her you know and her pestering you is just anoying

The Flash
February 8th, 2014, 06:39 PM
Use the same thing on her, ask her how she knows she's straight if she hasn't had sex with a guy. But that wouldn't work if she has had sex with a guy.

Tell her how it's not about sex. It's the emotional and physical attraction towards guys. You have feelings for guys, feelings that you don't have towards girls.

Nomad_X
February 8th, 2014, 06:49 PM
Use the same thing on her, ask her how she knows she's straight if she hasn't had sex with a guy. But that wouldn't work if she has had sex with a guy.



Yes, exactly as said here!

Jakie23
February 15th, 2014, 06:47 PM
It is technically the same thing. I've said to several of my straight guy friends "how do you know you're not gay if you havn't done stuff with a guy?" They get rather pissed off at me. But it's kinda true

AlexOnToast
February 15th, 2014, 06:59 PM
TBH these people don't know what they are on about and I have no idea why thay care so much about the personal in's-and-out's of people lives. Maybe it's abrupt of me but I would tell her to stop talking for the above reason lol.

riverboy
February 15th, 2014, 11:37 PM
TBH these people don't know what they are on about and I have no idea why thay care so much about the personal in's-and-out's of people lives. Maybe it's abrupt of me but I would tell her to stop talking for the above reason lol.

Yes. Is she trying to make you mad? You could all ways ask if she wants to have sex with you.

Brown13
February 16th, 2014, 07:16 PM
sounds like either A. she likes you or B. she wants to see you mad. Either choice, she wants something from you

green white
February 17th, 2014, 04:00 PM
I don't know i'm gay or straight. But i feel i'm bseksual
can you help me?

noplanhere9
February 19th, 2014, 12:57 PM
well you have the rights in this argument. It really does seem like she is kind of into you.

Basket
February 19th, 2014, 01:13 PM
sounds like either A. she likes you or B. she wants to see you mad. Either choice, she wants something from you

Exactly this

Basket
February 19th, 2014, 01:13 PM
Yes. Is she trying to make you mad? You could all ways ask if she wants to have sex with you.

Give it a shot and see if she does like or want to have sex with you