I keep making the Same mistakes

[Niamh101]

I'm 17 and I've been with six people, I've had two really long relationships the rest have resulted in me being used. One of the people has a girlfriend who is lovely and I feel awful but we were both drunk. I only feel attractive and wanted when I get the attention now all boys want is to use me

[Uniquemind]

Sounds like you're seeking how to gain higher self-esteem outside of romantic situations being the source of confidence in oneself. Is this what you want?

[AutumnWinds]

I'm 17 and I've been with six people, I've had two really long relationships the rest have resulted in me being used. One of the people has a girlfriend who is lovely and I feel awful but we were both drunk. I only feel attractive and wanted when I get the attention now all boys want is to use me

have you considered seeing a therapist?

i don't mean that as a jab at all. you don't feel attractive or loved, and you deserve to feel both of these things, but the best way to get what you deserve is to seek the help of someone a lot more educated in such matters than anyone on VT.

you deserve to be happy. i hope you'll do this to try and be so.