Teacher

[Runnergirl10]

I'm 15 and I really like my teacher. What should I do?

[TheDoctor24]

Dont do anything illegal! NOT GOOD! Use judgement!

[Vanilla Cupcake]

What do you feel like doing? What do you want from him?

[Melodic]

It's not that odd to have a crush on a teacher. It's not at all a good idea to try to do something about it. If he claims to have feelings for you, there is a 98 percent chance he's just taking advantage of you. If he doesn't, it will just create an uncomfortable situation for the both of you.

[Jerms]

I'm just gonna sort of go off of what Melodic said..

To start this off, you're too young for him legally and probably morally speaking. It is extremely normal for a teen to have a crush on their teacher, especially if that teacher helped them through a rough time in their life, is attractive, or is just overall a really awesome person to be around. Now, if he expresses feelings for you, you're crossing a boundary that is now illegal and inappropriate. He should be a professional and not have intimate relations with students, especially ones so young.

What I recommend you doing is to continue having your crush, keep it to yourself, and you'll eventually find someone your age who gives you that same feeling! Good luck :)

[Runnergirl10]

It's not that odd to have a crush on a teacher. It's not at all a good idea to try to do something about it. If he claims to have feelings for you, there is a 98 percent chance he's just taking advantage of you. If he doesn't, it will just create an uncomfortable situation for the both of you.

No. He doesn't have feelings for me at least I dont think so. I think that he sees me as more of a daughter in a way. I would never try to do anything with him, I just want to know how to get myself not to like him because he is sort of like a father figure to me and I don't want to see him that way

I'm just gonna sort of go off of what Melodic said..

To start this off, you're too young for him legally and probably morally speaking. It is extremely normal for a teen to have a crush on their teacher, especially if that teacher helped them through a rough time in their life, is attractive, or is just overall a really awesome person to be around. Now, if he expresses feelings for you, you're crossing a boundary that is now illegal and inappropriate. He should be a professional and not have intimate relations with students, especially ones so young.

What I recommend you doing is to continue having your crush, keep it to yourself, and you'll eventually find someone your age who gives you that same feeling! Good luck :)

Thank you. I would never have a relationship with him I just want to know what I should do to make myself not like him.

What do you feel like doing? What do you want from him?

I want a lot of things from him that I can't have, but I mostly want not to want any of those things


-merged triple post. -Emerald Dream

[Melodic]

No. He doesn't have feelings for me at least I dont think so. I think that he sees me as more of a daughter in a way. I would never try to do anything with him, I just want to know how to get myself not to like him because he is sort of like a father figure to me and I don't want to see him that way


I would just take it as a rejection. Find ways to distract yourself. When you start to feel those emotions, do something to distract yourself. Take a jog, listen to music, read a book, change the thought to something else. Even if you don't feel like you can, eventually you'll get tired from feeling those emotions and you'll get over it.

[ashdyn]

Don't do anything. Just admire from afar. Nothing involving teacher-student contact ever ends well. In fact...it usually ends in losing a job and going to jail. Wait it out til you're 18 and graduated if you really really want to lol

[Cadanance00]

Don't do anything. Just admire from afar. Nothing involving teacher-student contact ever ends well. In fact...it usually ends in losing a job and going to jail. Wait it out til you're 18 and graduated if you really really want to lol

I'm afraid I have to agree with this totally. Even an allegation that you did anything together would have disastrous consequences for him. All you have to do is google it and see the ruined lives.

That being said, it happens. I know a kid who's had an on-and-off thing with a teacher for a while. He told me and I told him to totally, absolutely, positively not to tell anyone and break it off immediately cuz it's only a matter of time if they keep it up that they get caught. Then all hell breaks loose. She would certainly go to jail and lose her job, get put on the sex offender list, etc. And he comes from a bad home so they probably would take him and make him a ward of the state.

Think about it. It ain't worth the risk.

[SethfromMI]

Don't do anything. Just admire from afar. Nothing involving teacher-student contact ever ends well. In fact...it usually ends in losing a job and going to jail. Wait it out til you're 18 and graduated if you really really want to lol

this. nothing good will come out of it until you are of legal age and out of the school. I am not saying you should do it at that point, but wait to at least then to do so

[Zachary G]

there is nothing for you to do. you are his student and his responsibility, not to mention that if anything were to happen between you two, he could lose his job and goto jail. is that what you would want for him? its a school crush and it will pass, so dont look at it any deeper than what it is.

[Bluebyrd]

You don't need to do anything. Don't tell him or don't try to not like him. What difference would the latter make anyway?

[Vermilion]

Nothing at all

[ashdyn]

When I was in 8th grade we had a sub at our school straight out of college. She was HOT AS FUCK. I think she was a sorority girl and even at that age we could all tell she was on the sluttier side. Every guy I knew wanted to be her special student that she had sex with lol I was def one of those guys too. The idea of doing it with her would have been awesome but looking back on it, if we got caught (cause I wouldn't be able to not brag) it could have literally ruined her life. She'd get fired, most likely some jail time, then register as a sex offender for the rest of her life. Her career would be over. It wasn't worth it no matter how hot and slutty she was. At least now since she didn't go to jail there's like an outside possibility I run into her around town, we hit it off, and she can finally take me home and punish me for being a naughty schoolboy lmao

[Uniquemind]

It's good you recognize these feelings, my advice is don't act on them, but in your own mind don't get caught up in a guilt trap and then respond by trying to suppress the emotions.

It's probably just lust, and masturbation will take care of that, make it a marathon if you have to in order to burn up all the lusty fuel, write in your diary your own version of 50 shades of grey with him as a character and then put the story through a shredder later.

Just get it out of your system and keeping other areas of your life going. Don't get fixated.

[SethfromMI]

When I was in 8th grade we had a sub at our school straight out of college. She was HOT AS FUCK. I think she was a sorority girl and even at that age we could all tell she was on the sluttier side. Every guy I knew wanted to be her special student that she had sex with lol I was def one of those guys too. The idea of doing it with her would have been awesome but looking back on it, if we got caught (cause I wouldn't be able to not brag) it could have literally ruined her life. She'd get fired, most likely some jail time, then register as a sex offender for the rest of her life. Her career would be over. It wasn't worth it no matter how hot and slutty she was. At least now since she didn't go to jail there's like an outside possibility I run into her around town, we hit it off, and she can finally take me home and punish me for being a naughty schoolboy lmao

XD lol well you will have to let me know how that turned out haha, but good for you for not trying to do anything with her then (not that she would have with an 8th grader anyways). stuff like that would ruin the rest of their lives and even the accusation can do the same thing. it is not fair to put them in any sort of situation like that

[Uranus]

What should you do? Anything that's not illegal is probably the simplest answer and move on from fantasies that are not likely going to happen or shouldn't happen

[ashdyn]

XD lol well you will have to let me know how that turned out haha, but good for you for not trying to do anything with her then (not that she would have with an 8th grader anyways). stuff like that would ruin the rest of their lives and even the accusation can do the same thing. it is not fair to put them in any sort of situation like that

Oh she would have...I was cute as fuck! Still am lmao

[Uniquemind]

Oh she would have...I was cute as fuck! Still am lmao

*tsk tisk*

In all seriousness though, how does everyone feel if we tweak the scenario a bit?

I've heard of rumors (nothing in my immediate life) like on the news and in blogs and social media, that there have been cases where a student and teacher fall in love, and to get around the law, he/she quits the position of authority, and then they keep living their lives together; sometimes children come along the way too.

Sometimes there's an age gap that's not that bad (5 years), and then other times it's pushing 10+ years. It all depends if the romantic tension began at the cusp end of being a minor or not for one of the partners.

A person fresh out of college could potentially have a teaching degree at like 22-24, at the high school if the other person was 16 or 17, that's not that big of an age gap to me.

In a lot of cases it ends tragically, but then again for the cases that produce no negative drama, well they don't get media attention do they? We only have selective bias for the naughty-tragic news stories.

So with that media bias in mind, how does everyone feel regarding

[ashdyn]

*tsk tisk*

In all seriousness though, how does everyone feel if we tweak the scenario a bit?

I've heard of rumors (nothing in my immediate life) like on the news and in blogs and social media, that there have been cases where a student and teacher fall in love, and to get around the law, he/she quits the position of authority, and then they keep living their lives together; sometimes children come along the way too.

Sometimes there's an age gap that's not that bad (5 years), and then other times it's pushing 10+ years. It all depends if the romantic tension began at the cusp end of being a minor or not for one of the partners.

A person fresh out of college could potentially have a teaching degree at like 22-24, at the high school if the other person was 16 or 17, that's not that big of an age gap to me.

In a lot of cases it ends tragically, but then again for the cases that produce no negative drama, well they don't get media attention do they? We only have selective bias for the naughty-tragic news stories.

So with that media bias in mind, how does everyone feel regarding


I'm pretty sure you're referencing Mary Kay Letourneau. I'm pretty familiar cause Florida seems to have cornered the market on student teacher affairs lmao in her case she got fired, arrested, did some jail too, got out, had the student's babies, and now live happily ever after

[Uniquemind]

I'm pretty sure you're referencing Mary Kay Letourneau. I'm pretty familiar cause Florida seems to have cornered the market on student teacher affairs lmao in her case she got fired, arrested, did some jail too, got out, had the student's babies, and now live happily ever after

Yeah that might've been the story...Florida is well something else.

But still the last question of my post above this still stands. Since the final outcome was the same was it worth all the taxpayer legal drama and expense?

Free will is free will after all, if the consequences are the cause of most of the hurt then, in some particular cases isn't it wiser to be flexible and look the other way? Dogmatic legal policy suffers from inflexibility at times.

[AutumnWinds]

I'm 15 and I really like my teacher. What should I do?

this is gonna sound dumb, but it will very likely work.

you need to challenge your own thoughts on him. like whenever you find yourself thinking about how you like him. remind yourself he's your teacher and it can never happen right away. it should help you change your thought process into something more manageable. :)

[LanaPole]

nothing you can do i guess. Honestly im pretty sure thats your own feelings toward him/her. He/she have no feelings for you and would be shocked if they know about your thoughts. your teacher is probably a nice person but forget about a romantic relationship...

[Bontigo Papi .]

Nothing.

If anything should happen , and you get caught, the governing body of the school can fine the teacher, and you could be expelled; have a bad record on your name.

You should keep dreaming, you'll find better who'll be your age , and when you're mature enough, you can make your own decisions. This one, hun, I think you should take a pass on, sorry though.

[lacey02]

I find myself admiring people and sometimes it can be confusing if they are older, but if I think about why I think I like them, it is usually not based on their age or what they look like so not really them at all. I find that I like certain qualities about them. If I am able to separate qualities from the person, then I dont fall for an older guy, but I just think of the quality and then I can look for people more my age with that same quality. that may not make sense to anyone but me LOL. but maybe it will help someone

[Daisy Farell]

Don't fight with your feelings. Just let them be because the more you try to suppress them the stronger they fight back. You are obviously smart enough not to act on them so just don't worry about it. It's just a crush. You can enjoy it! It will go away on its own.

[Atlantis]

Don't fight with your feelings. Just let them be because the more you try to suppress them the stronger they fight back. You are obviously smart enough not to act on them so just don't worry about it. It's just a crush. You can enjoy it! It will go away on its own.

Please don't bump old threads. :locked: