What do guys?

[Yolo its Millie]

Do guys feel different when they have sex with girls that are easy?

Do they do it different than if it was a girl they liked?

What do they tell their Friends?

[ImCoolBeans]

This is not necessarily puberty related.
P101 :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[Uniquemind]

Dunno the first one, I assume so, culturally I know there's a lot of pressure for males to lose the v-card.

The second question, I need to know what you mean. Like are they less rough, more/less passionate, more or less emotionally involved other than the necessary wham-bam- thank you?


Third question, ugh in my experience and just in evesdropping on conversations of guys while in class, or elsewhere like at parties. Guys suck with discretion, some keep their mouth shut, but many are so eager to brag to their friends at the expense of a girls reputation, even if the gossip is false or exaggerated, it's that bad.

Once word does get out that a girl is easy, I do believe a lot of unsavory guys who only want a physical relationship, do attempt to get some but they tend to be abusive and treat you like a toy.

[Human]

Anyone who isn't a dick won't speak badly of a girl they had sex with, however yeah sex with someone you care about is different

[Melodic]

Here's the difference between guys when they like someone and when they are going with someone who is easy.

When a guy wants a girl just because they're easy to have sex with, they will make it known that's what they want from them. Even if they don't directly say their intentions. Sex will probably be the main topic of their conversations. When the girl hangs out with him, it will be on a bed or somewhere private. The girl will probably never be invited out on dates or anything. It will feel less intimate and more just fun. The guy will probably brag about their sexual encounters to his friends and give details of what happened.

If a guy really loves a girl, sex won't be a major factor. He will do all the typical romantic things like a normal, healthy relationship. The sex will be 25-50 percent of the relationship. When it happens, it will typically be more passionate and intimate because the two have more emotions with each other unlike the above situation. It's 50/50 where he tells his friends. If he does tell, he probably won't go into much detail as it would feel more personal to him.

[Uniquemind]

Here's the difference between guys when they like someone and when they are going with someone who is easy.

When a guy wants a girl just because they're easy to have sex with, they will make it known that's what they want from them. Even if they don't directly say their intentions. Sex will probably be the main topic of their conversations. When the girl hangs out with him, it will be on a bed or somewhere private. The girl will probably never be invited out on dates or anything. It will feel less intimate and more just fun. The guy will probably brag about their sexual encounters to his friends and give details of what happened.

If a guy really loves a girl, sex won't be a major factor. He will do all the typical romantic things like a normal, healthy relationship. The sex will be 25-50 percent of the relationship. When it happens, it will typically be more passionate and intimate because the two have more emotions with each other unlike the above situation. It's 50/50 where he tells his friends. If he does tell, he probably won't go into much detail as it would feel more personal to him.

I love that line of the post, it's so simple yet so descriptively true. "It will feel less intimate and more just fun".

If I could +100 reputation you I would, because that's such a mind-twisting concept given that many people both male and female expect relationships to be "fun" in order to create an intimate atmosphere FOR a serious relationship.

It's such an abstract concept that each individual has to play with in their mind until they understand this subtle difference but it's such an important distinction.

Well done Melodic well done; your namesake is befitting.

[Yolo its Millie]

wow all of these answers are sooo good, you guys really thought about this.

[ashdyn]

Do guys feel different when they have sex with girls that are easy?

Do they do it different than if it was a girl they liked?

What do they tell their Friends?

Physically - no lol
Emotionally - maybe but unlikely. You can hook up with someone that's not easy and still not develop feelings for them past just physical attraction.

Most guys probably don't do much different. For me anyway, the only difference that I can really find is I'd be more likely to go down on her and probably kiss her more if I liked her.

Most guys will probably tell their friends some convoluted story about how he took this girl to pound town til she came over and over screaming his name or that he blew his load all over her face, when in reality it was probably like 10-15 minutes of half clothed fumbling and then a slight mess at the end followed by some awkwardness lol if he likes her he'll either be a gentleman and not share or still tell a glorified porn story with a more dignified tone and ending lmao

[Yolo its Millie]

that is what I thought Physically - no lol
Emotionally - maybe but unlikely. You can hook up with someone that's not easy and still not develop feelings for them past just physical attraction.

Most guys probably don't do much different. For me anyway, the only difference that I can really find is I'd be more likely to go down on her and probably kiss her more if I liked her.

Most guys will probably tell their friends some convoluted story about how he took this girl to pound town til she came over and over screaming his name or that he blew his load all over her face, when in reality it was probably like 10-15 minutes of half clothed fumbling and then a slight mess at the end followed by some awkwardness lol if he likes her he'll either be a gentleman and not share or still tell a glorified porn story with a more dignified tone and ending lmao

[Uniquemind]

Physically - no lol
Emotionally - maybe but unlikely. You can hook up with someone that's not easy and still not develop feelings for them past just physical attraction.

Most guys probably don't do much different. For me anyway, the only difference that I can really find is I'd be more likely to go down on her and probably kiss her more if I liked her.

Most guys will probably tell their friends some convoluted story about how he took this girl to pound town til she came over and over screaming his name or that he blew his load all over her face, when in reality it was probably like 10-15 minutes of half clothed fumbling and then a slight mess at the end followed by some awkwardness lol if he likes her he'll either be a gentleman and not share or still tell a glorified porn story with a more dignified tone and ending lmao

Agreed, and in truth this is probably the premise behind why our forum rules here don't allow for sexual storytelling.


that is what I thought

So after a long absence from these forums (a few months), what brings you back here seeking wisdom? Did something happen in your sex/love life that has got your mind and soul pondering some issue that troubles you?

I did warn you, as did Clarawho, despite having different tones of advice, she was much more assertive than I was, and I was much more hands-off, with my advice to you. But has something happened that has changed your opinion about love, sex, and relationships that validated our previous advice too in the context of what you wanted to pursue at the time?

How have you changed since we last met, is the TL; DR version of my question.

[Yolo its Millie]

Its funny I really dont mind but I just wanted to get the facts about it dumb I know, just like to know.

[Uniquemind]

Its funny I really dont mind but I just wanted to get the facts about it dumb I know, just like to know.

No I can relate to that very much actually. You like the comfort knowledge gives you because it provides a sense of security in what to expect, and lessens fear of the unknown. Right?

[Yolo its Millie]

yes that is right, I think. In some ways I want guys to talk about me and in some ways I don't lol.

[Uniquemind]

yes that is right, I think. In some ways I want guys to talk about me and in some ways I don't lol.

Can you give examples? I'm sure you're not the only girl who struggles with that conflict. Some of it I think is social conditioning.

This hits a deeper concept that even I struggle with now, and I might be going off on a tangent here so since you're the OP, I would need your permission to dive deeper into the core of this topic and stuff.

[Yolo its Millie]

go nuts dive in lol.

[Uniquemind]

go nuts dive in lol.


So give an example of what you meant by

"In some ways I want guys to talk about me and in some ways I don't".

By this meaning of attention? Does attention correlate to how you see your own self-worth, and if so why?

When we last talked you were set on living a YOLO, thrill-seeking, lifestyle, but you failed to communicate why that was important to you.

[Yolo its Millie]

Well it like if a guy tells other guys "pound town" story's lol it kind of might make me sound like a slut, but lets be honest most guys want to do IT anyway so the same story may make other guys interested in me. Its like an itch that I need to get scratched every now and then. My self wort is fine, I mean I feel good about myself in general. Most people will never no this stuff about me, except people on here, but its kind of nice to get it out.

[Uniquemind]

Well it like if a guy tells other guys "pound town" story's lol it kind of might make me sound like a slut, but lets be honest most guys want to do IT anyway so the same story may make other guys interested in me. Its like an itch that I need to get scratched every now and then. My self wort is fine, I mean I feel good about myself in general. Most people will never no this stuff about me, except people on here, but its kind of nice to get it out.

I warned you that would happen last time we talked, it is one of the consequences unfortunately. How bad has the gossip affected your reputation and also how has that affected your ability to make friendships among other girls?

Usually once the slut label gets attached to you it sends ripple effects into these particular areas of an individual's life. Not to mention other girl's mothers pass judgement on their daughter's social circles all the time, it's an incredible fishbowl experience which can generate a lot of stress.

[Yolo its Millie]

no no no there is no gossip in my school and friendship area. And no one has called me a slut.

[Uniquemind]

no no no there is no gossip in my school and friendship area. And no one has called me a slut.

That begs the next question. If gossip did get out how would you react?

[Yolo its Millie]

is it possible that it could be good gossip? I am sort of ok with having a certain reputation with some guys

[Uniquemind]

is it possible that it could be good gossip? I am sort of ok with having a certain reputation with some guys

But are you prepared for the backlash that can come from other girls?

[Yolo its Millie]

I think so, I mean its probably not what guys would tell girls anyway

[Uniquemind]

I think so, I mean its probably not what guys would tell girls anyway

I want you to think from another girl's perspective for a moment.

How would you react if you had a crush on a boy and word was spreading that another girl and your crush were "FWB" or something?

To be honest I find it very hard to imagine rumors aren't flying around at your school, I hear rumors all the time and these rumors are quite destructive. There have been school fights over stuff like this.

[Yolo its Millie]

that is a really good point. well I don't hook up with anyone from my school. There would probably be some girls at other schools that hate me! I guess there would be rumors about me out there.

[Uniquemind]

that is a really good point. well I don't hook up with anyone from my school. There would probably be some girls at other schools that hate me! I guess there would be rumors about me out there.

Which in this day and age is a skip-hop-n-away from spreading via social media.

Rumors fly so easily now, regardless if their true or fake.

But let me pause here for just a second to ask you a question.

What is love to you? What does it mean to you emotionally outside of sex?

[Yolo its Millie]

I love my family and friends. I care about people, I think love and sex can be two different things as well, but the experience is also different. I guess I sound like a bit of a bitch

[Uniquemind]

I love my family and friends. I care about people, I think love and sex can be two different things as well, but the experience is also different. I guess I sound like a bit of a bitch

No not at all. I'd agree with that statement.

Seems pretty fair to say.

Looks like you accidentally double posted.

I'm of a firm belief that love and sex within relationships share a Venn diagram.

The question is within that framework are you substituting one for the other in an unhealthy way?

[Yolo its Millie]

I don't think so, I have a good life, plenty of people love me. And I have a lot of other good things that I do in my life. I guess there is two sides to me.

[Uniquemind]

I don't think so, I have a good life, plenty of people love me. And I have a lot of other good things that I do in my life. I guess there is two sides to me.

So you're saying you live a double life?

How much of your sex life is also your romantic life? How much of that do you hide from those who care about you?

P.S. My responses are getting slow due timezone differences. So please forgive me.

[Yolo its Millie]

its ok

nun of my sex life is romantic, but I do enjoy being sensual for the guy or guys, like I will hug and kiss. No one that cares about me knows this stuff .

[ashdyn]

Well it like if a guy tells other guys "pound town" story's lol it kind of might make me sound like a slut, but lets be honest most guys want to do IT anyway so the same story may make other guys interested in me. Its like an itch that I need to get scratched every now and then. My self wort is fine, I mean I feel good about myself in general. Most people will never no this stuff about me, except people on here, but its kind of nice to get it out.

You're a horny teenager. This is perfectly okay. Having guys know that you're not a complete prude sets you up nicely to get that itch scratched lol most guys know how to sort through the BS in their friends' stories. That said...everything in moderation. Also, don't do anything too crazy that it becomes sex folklore for the guys. In cases like that, perception becomes reality. That can suck pretty bad.

[Uniquemind]

its ok

nun of my sex life is romantic, but I do enjoy being sensual for the guy or guys, like I will hug and kiss. No one that cares about me knows this stuff .

So that sounds to me like you have a bit of a submissive streak, you like the concept of pleasing others, that's probably where the thrill originates from and makes you feel safe or comforted. Is that true?



You're a horny teenager. This is perfectly okay. Having guys know that you're not a complete prude sets you up nicely to get that itch scratched lol most guys know how to sort through the BS in their friends' stories. That said...everything in moderation. Also, don't do anything too crazy that it becomes sex folklore for the guys. In cases like that, perception becomes reality. That can suck pretty bad.

ashdyn and Yolo its Millie

Ashdyn, is right, having and utilizing that part of yourself socially is a double-edged sword, and I guess in your case it's best to just have a plan for any of the negative fallout.

[Yolo its Millie]

yes and at least on here I can say it, all of that is true

[AutumnWinds]

is it possible that it could be good gossip? I am sort of ok with having a certain reputation with some guys

what reputation are you implying you wouldn't mind having?

i'm not trying to judge you at all. i'm just asking because i'm curious. :)

[Uniquemind]

yes and at least on here I can say it, all of that is true

My next question is how much of this do you hide from your parents.

How are you able to hide it? That's a feet in of itself.

[Yolo its Millie]

what reputation are you implying you wouldn't mind having?

i'm not trying to judge you at all. i'm just asking because i'm curious. :)

The I am fun reputation

My next question is how much of this do you hide from your parents.

How are you able to hide it? That's a feet in of itself.

Essay I dont do it at home or with anyone in my social group

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[Uniquemind]

Essay I dont do it at home or with anyone in my social group

Explain how. That only explains part of it, but not the whole thing.

[Yolo its Millie]

Its not that hard. I get good marks at school, I do what I am told, they are happy.

[Uniquemind]

Its not that hard. I get good marks at school, I do what I am told, they are happy.

So I guess that implies once school is over you have free time?

I guess I just don't relate because while I can hang out with friends, I'm usually, tracked, for lack of a better word. I can think of some tactics, but I can't see how certain social circles of your peers or friends, don't get the idea of what you get up to in what I could call a double-life.

I'm not criticizing you, you do what you want, i'm partly just curious but also concerned to a degree because I can see how it can spiral out of your control.

[Yolo its Millie]

yes it is a double life I guess. I get a text, jump on a train or bus no one knows where I go lol. They just think Im going to the mall or to a friends.

[Uniquemind]

yes it is a double life I guess. I get a text, jump on a train or bus no one knows where I go lol. They just think Im going to the mall or to a friends.

How often does this happen; daily, weekly, monthly?

[Yolo its Millie]

it vary s

[Uniquemind]

it vary s

Does a part of you even consider it dating?

Describe what a date means to you.

[Yolo its Millie]

no its not dating

its just hooking up

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[Uniquemind]

its just hooking up

Does hooking up this early in your life affect you ever valuing a relationship in the future?

Do you want for more emotionally?

[Yolo its Millie]

I dont think so, its different

[ashdyn]

Uniquemind she obviously knows what she's doing lol She's just in the advanced class of 13 year olds that can understand that sex, love, and relationships can be disconnected and exist independently of one another.
Yolo its Millie - you can keep doing what you're doing but you just have to acknowledge that there are some risks involved in living that freely. You could get preggers, you could get raped, you might become infamous. Just be really careful and stay in your age range and that can pretty much take care of the first two issues. The third issue can become complicated in the future when you want to actually want to start dating. Most young guys aren't confident enough to date a girl with history like yours especially because you're open about it (I would be too though, I openly admit I was slutty when I was younger lol). Just prepare for that stuff.

Also, I was wondering where your limits are. Like what's the youngest and oldest you would let have full on sex with you?

[Yolo its Millie]

I think any age up to 16 maybe not sure

[Uniquemind]

Uniquemind she obviously knows what she's doing lol She's just in the advanced class of 13 year olds that can understand that sex, love, and relationships can be disconnected and exist independently of one another.
Yolo its Millie - you can keep doing what you're doing but you just have to acknowledge that there are some risks involved in living that freely. You could get preggers, you could get raped, you might become infamous. Just be really careful and stay in your age range and that can pretty much take care of the first two issues. The third issue can become complicated in the future when you want to actually want to start dating. Most young guys aren't confident enough to date a girl with history like yours especially because you're open about it (I would be too though, I openly admit I was slutty when I was younger lol). Just prepare for that stuff.

Also, I was wondering where your limits are. Like what's the youngest and oldest you would let have full on sex with you?

Fair enough.

Just wanted her to know of the consequences that directly affect her but also are ones out of her control.

She needs to know infamous in this context has both a light side and a dark side, and there are precautions that can be taken to reduce the downside and promote what she wants to do.


Like you just said she could come across a not so friendly guy. Does she have a plan for that?

Your a wise streetwise person ashdyn, you know that in some circles darker things occur (underground merchandise etc.), not always but it's good to be prepared and to know personal limits of when it's okay to push boundaries of thrill and discovery and when it's time to say "hey okay this has been fun, but I'm out".

[ashdyn]

Fair enough.

Just wanted her to know of the consequences that directly affect her but also are ones out of her control.

She needs to know infamous in this context has both a light side and a dark side, and there are precautions that can be taken to reduce the downside and promote what she wants to do.


Like you just said she could come across a not so friendly guy. Does she have a plan for that?

I'm sure she has a vetting process lol she'll more than likely know these guys quite a bit.

[Yolo its Millie]

nope I dont have a plan for that

[ashdyn]

I think any age up to 16 maybe not sure

That's not too bad. What about anyone your age or younger?

[Yolo its Millie]

lol most are around my age, lol most younger guys dont like girls lol, but I would I guess if one wanted to maybe.

[Uniquemind]

nope I dont have a plan for that

As someone who has a close friend that experienced something bad, that's why I'm concerned. I'm seeing echoes of similarity.

[ashdyn]

True lol I did when I was in middle school tho. Where were you then?! 😩

[Yolo its Millie]

I appreciate the concern, I dont behave like a slut every day or week. Just here and there, and Its sort of controlled in away that I only hook up with guys that I have already hooked up with or guys that guys I have hooked up with know. Some of the guys really look out for me. And although I might be a FWB I am quite close with some of them.

True lol I did when I was in middle school tho. Where were you then?! 😩

lol :wub:

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[ashdyn]

Are you on the pill?

[Yolo its Millie]

Are you on the pill?

yup I am

[Uniquemind]

I appreciate the concern, I dont behave like a slut every day or week. Just here and there, and Its sort of controlled in away that I only hook up with guys that I have already hooked up with or guys that guys I have hooked up with know. Some of the guys really look out for me. And although I might be a FWB I am quite close with some of them.

The guys with Guys they know is where the slippery slope is.

You have to count the degrees of separation, but now that you've explained a slight process to it, I am relieved a little bit.

[ashdyn]

yup I am

You're all set then. Just be careful and have fun. When you're young is supposed to be when you mess around and try new things.

Most of us go through that phase at some point.

Ive only ever had sex with one girl, but I messed around with some other girls I was talking to before that. we talked about it and knew it was kinda sexual, so we didn't really get attached, it was just fun and learning =] I can say for me its different with my gf than it was with those other girls beforehand, it has a deeper feeling for me now and in my experience most guys are going to brag and make up some crazy story about it.

I know the sexual urges that need an itch, ive taken care of it myself for a long time, its nice to have someone else help though

its nice to have a reputation as fun, but gotta be careful it doesn't turn into just that your easy, or that somehow both your world collide by accident. if your ok with it and are being safe then go for it. the attention can be fun, but sometimes it can be too much attention.

Sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders, so just be careful and do what you feel best, and be safe and use protection, don't want to get preggers or catch anything. Also you could get a toy to help scratch the itch if you cant get out sometimes.

Agreed. But it's kinda hard to get a toy when she's that young lol

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[Uniquemind]

Agreed. But it's kinda hard to get a toy when she's that young lol

In puritanical America, that's why the Nimbus 2000 Harry potter broomstick toy got banned.

It's like so valuable now on the secondary market it's hilarious.

But yeah I think we've talked about everything now. All the important questions and answers have been asked.

[ashdyn]

The second we turned 18 me and my gf got a box of toys lmao

[Yolo its Millie]

ahahahahahah thats funny lol

[Uniquemind]

You know now that I think about it.

I don't have this problem because I date an older partner, and it works long distance because both of us like our personal space, and so the relationship is sporadic and then nothing and then sporadic and then nil.

It's like being single and then being with someone off and on. It's weird, but does anybody else relate to that?

Maybe I'm just weird, because I keep hearing long distance doesn't work from almost everyone else I talk to.

[ashdyn]

I know people think it's weird but toys do add a whole different dimension of fun. I highly recommend them lol

[Yolo its Millie]

I just like hooking up at the moment. Nothing like the real thing!

[Uniquemind]

I just like hooking up at the moment. Nothing like the real thing!

See I could never do that because I get too emotional.

Does that imply you don't though?

[Yolo its Millie]

maybe I am a bad person but I just enjoy being F$%$#@ lol

[Uniquemind]

maybe I am a bad person but I just enjoy being screwed lol

I don't think that's bad, or that makes you a bad person.

In general I don't recommend thinking in absolutes.

But it definitely makes you unique, and I do think that in the future you're going to have to explore the emotional side of your being and develop that and figure out how it ticks, and then attempt to merge the physical side of intimacy and dating culture with the social-emotional side.

[ashdyn]

maybe I am a bad person but I just enjoy being F$%$#@ lol

Nah you're human lol sex feels good. It's supposed to feel good. Nothing wrong with wanting to get that feeling...a lot. I'd do it every day if I could lmao

[Yolo its Millie]

true its like when I was younger getting nude felt good, then after that playing doctor (giving had) to neighborhood boys under beds and in wardrobes felt good lol, now its this.

[ashdyn]

We've all gone through it lol

When curiosity leads to that omg moment when you realize how good sex feels. Life's never really the same after that. It's pretty much all you can think about most of the time. I went full slut mode when it happened to me ��

[Uniquemind]

Do you ever think that perhaps any of those boys want more than sex?

There's a stereotype that says that's all boys want, but I've found that to be quite false sometimes.

Guys seek the emotional side of relationships too, I think the media doesn't do that justice yet these forums do.

There's tons of examples here of guys who show a softer side.

[Yolo its Millie]

a guy cant be a slut I dont think

[Uniquemind]

a guy cant be a slut I dont think

My rule of thumb for that word was that if you can spread an STD and be inconsiderate to your partners the you can be one regardless of gender.

It all depends on respect.

Or that's at least my definition of it.

[Yolo its Millie]

makes sense

I have been called a slut before

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[ashdyn]

Do you ever think that perhaps any of those boys want more than sex?

There's a stereotype that says that's all boys want, but I've found that to be quite false sometimes.

Guys seek the emotional side of relationships too, I think the media doesn't do that justice yet these forums do.

There's tons of examples here of guys who show a softer side.

Go home, you're drunk lol all we want is sex.

a guy cant be a slut I dont think

Why not? Girls can be called sluts for fucking a bunch of people...if a guy does the same thing there shouldn't be a double standard lol

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[Uniquemind]

Go home, you're drunk lol all we want is sex.

Then why are there the clingy types?
Yolo its Millie

You do test yourself regularly for STD's right? Have you ever experienced one?

[ashdyn]

Then why are there the clingy types?

So they can convince you to have more sex by appealing to your softer side lol we're animals

[Yolo its Millie]

Then why are there the clingy types?
Yolo its Millie

You do test yourself regularly for STD's right? Have you ever experienced one?

no I have never had an STD

[Uniquemind]

So they can convince you to have more sex by appealing to your softer side lol we're animals

That's so sad! It's just sex, war, maybe be a dad one day, do something impulsive, sex, and war for guys then huh?

That better be a joke, that's still so sad if it's true.

[ashdyn]

Then why are there the clingy types?
Yolo its Millie

You do test yourself regularly for STD's right? Have you ever experienced one?

What 13 year old gets tested? I'll answer that form you... None. I'm also willing to bet the answer to the second question is no too. Just cause you get around doesn't mean you'll definitely get an std. I know a bunch of super slutty people that have literally gotten with over 30 people and never gotten an std.

[Yolo its Millie]

dam im going to be a super slut if Im not careful

[ashdyn]

dam im going to be a super slut if Im not careful

Your body count isn't near 30 yet lol

[Yolo its Millie]

no it is not lol

[ashdyn]

By freshman year you'll probably be the the most skilled girl at everything...the guys wouldn't last 5 minutes with you lmao

[Uniquemind]

Your body count isn't near 30 yet lol

Do numbers matter in the long run though?

Isn't happiness the end goal of life when you're lying on your deathbed thinking was it all worth it?

Sry got deep there.



Serious question now, is going that deep a good or bad thing on a date? Part of me thinks I'd freak them out.

[ashdyn]

Do numbers matter in the long run though?

Isn't happiness the end goal of life when you're lying on your deathbed thinking was it all worth it?

Sry got deep there.



Serious question now, is going that deep a good or bad thing on a date? Part of me thinks I'd freak them out.

It's bad. Don't brink up deathbeds on dates. Other topics to avoid: marriage, parenthood, poop

[Yolo its Millie]

oh arm well thats depressing

It's bad. Don't brink up deathbeds on dates. Other topics to avoid: marriage, parenthood, poop

Marriage and parent hood no way

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[LanaPole]

Do guys feel different when they have sex with girls that are easy? i think so. its just for fun, or friends with benefits. the difference is that theres no romantic relationship.

Do they do it different than if it was a girl they liked? that would involve dating and many other stuff, not just sex. i think boys would take it slow with girls they like, but it still depends. some couples are different

What do they tell their Friends im sure boys brag about easy girls but i dont think they will talk about sex with a girl they like. a relationship is more than just sex. he might talk about dating and stuff

i might be wrong. its just what i think and its stil up to the individual

[LanaPole]

maybe I am a bad person but I just enjoy being F$%$#@ lol

no your not a bad person. i think it's just having fun. i feel good since i enjoy it. its not bad

[Yolo its Millie]

[QUOTE=LanaPole;3272130]no your not a bad person. i think it's just having fun. i feel good since i enjoy it. its not bad[/QUOTExxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[xcherriesncreamx]

I agree when i want sex feeling is different when i love the person its definately different:P

[Yolo its Millie]

Do guys feel different when they have sex with girls that are easy?

Do they do it different than if it was a girl they liked?

What do they tell their Friends?

[Uniquemind]

Do guys feel different when they have sex with girls that are easy?

Do they do it different than if it was a girl they liked?

What do they tell their Friends?

Can I ask why you are asking these questions to begin with?

In the past year or so do you want a relationship rather than what you've done so far?