Sex and your parents - what they know and do

[MeliWelli]

Assume almost every girl here has had at least the "talk" with their parents, and their parents know they masturbate and have sex. What seems to vary a lot is what parents do beyond that...I find some parents are really open, and for others the "talk" is where they basically stop. So, how do you think you parents would react to:

1) You wanting to learn about giving yourself the most pleasure from masturbation/sex?

2) Finding out you wanted to "experiment" or already did so with friends?

3) You having sex that is just casual, and not based in a relationship?

4) You being gay or bi (if you are)?

5) You watching porn?

6) You asking for specific techniques to pleasure your partner?

7) You sexting or sharing pics?

8) You asking them to get sex toys?

9) You asking a friend or partner to sleep over?

10) You having sex with someone significantly older?

[LITTLEANGEL19]

1) You wanting to learn about giving yourself the most pleasure from masturbation/sex? Had the talk and mum is fine about masturbation, N/A for sex.

2) Finding out you wanted to "experiment" or already did so with friends? Yes for masturbation.

3) You having sex that is just casual, and not based in a relationship? NO

4) You being gay or bi (if you are)? GAY

5) You watching porn? NO

6) You asking for specific techniques to pleasure your partner? NO

7) You sexting or sharing pics? Would never do that, and would advise no one to do it.

8) You asking them to get sex toys? Not so far

9) You asking a friend or partner to sleep over? Friends do sleepovers all the time

10) You having sex with someone significantly older? NO

[angelina]

1) You wanting to learn about giving yourself the most pleasure from masturbation/sex? no

2) Finding out you wanted to "experiment" or already did so with friends? no

3) You having sex that is just casual, and not based in a relationship? no

4) You being gay or bi (if you are)? NA

5) You watching porn? no

6) You asking for specific techniques to pleasure your partner? no

7) You sexting or sharing pics? no

8) You asking them to get sex toys? no

9) You asking a friend or partner to sleep over? friends (girls)

10) You having sex with someone significantly older? no

[Vanilla Cupcake]

I don't tell my mom anything, how embarrassing. Besides, we have sex Ed class at school and so she didn't need to have the talk with me.
I would never tell her I masterbate no way!

[tulolita2015]

My mother dont know anything about my sexual experiences, I dont have that confidence with her and thats a long story between me and her, but my stepfather do know I am sexually active but he keep the secret and I really love that from him.

[Laibachd]

1) You wanting to learn about giving yourself the most pleasure from masturbation/sex? No problem

2) Finding out you wanted to "experiment" or already did so with friends? Not a problem

3) You having sex that is just casual, and not based in a relationship? Not a problem
4) You being gay or bi (if you are)? Not a problem (bi)

5) You watching porn? Whatever haha

6) You asking for specific techniques to pleasure your partner? Never done that

7) You sexting or sharing pics? Ok

8) You asking them to get sex toys? Probably not

9) You asking a friend or partner to sleep over? Ok

10) You having sex with someone significantly older? Not sure

[Abbeys]

Assume almost every girl here has had at least the "talk" with their parents, and their parents know they masturbate and have sex. What seems to vary a lot is what parents do beyond that...I find some parents are really open, and for others the "talk" is where they basically stop. So, how do you think you parents would react to:

1) You wanting to learn about giving yourself the most pleasure from masturbation/sex? My parents are totally cool about sexual things,my mum said she would show me how to do it and she if I wanted she would show me how to pleasure a man usig my dad.

2) Finding out you wanted to "experiment" or already did so with friends?We.ve done lots of stuff,lots of girls one boy,one girl lots of boys.
We all know each other so it’s OK.
You having sex that is just casual, and not based in a relationship?
As long as I,m careful anything goes.

4) You being gay or bi (if you are)?Still deciding!

5) You watching porn?We all watch together sometimes.You should hear my dad and mum talking about the people on the screen,I won’t go in to details but my mum always comments on the size of the guy.

6) You asking for specific techniques to pleasure your partner? Covered in the above remarks.

7) You sexting or sharing pics? Sure but no face shots.

8) You asking them to get sex toys? They give me a credit card a budget and off I go.They would be pissed if I spent more than they said.

9) You asking a friend or partner to sleep over?All the time.big house,just keep the noise down,I think they get a bit jealous!!!!

10) You having sex with someone significantly older? A lot of my dad’s friends are succesful in the world of business and I have dated a few of them.They are just that bit more sophisticated and experienced sexually and in other ways.

[Maria16 Here]

1) You wanting to learn about giving yourself the most pleasure from masturbation/sex?

2) Finding out you wanted to "experiment" or already did so with friends? They know that I am active with others

3) You having sex that is just casual, and not based in a relationship? They are cool with it. Helps that I know they have done similar

4) You being gay or bi (if you are)? They know

5) You watching porn? Havent watch any with them but I imagine all parents know that teens are watching porn on net

6) You asking for specific techniques to pleasure your partner? Never asked

7) You sexting or sharing pics? They said that it was dangerous and that I shouldn't

8) You asking them to get sex toys? Never asked

9) You asking a friend or partner to sleep over? They have let me

10) You having sex with someone significantly older? They know i have

[Katie96xox]

1) You wanting to learn about giving yourself the most pleasure from masturbation/sex? My mum would be open to this

2) Finding out you wanted to "experiment" or already did so with friends? My mum knows that I've done this and doesn't have a problem with it

3) You having sex that is just casual, and not based in a relationship? She knows and doesn't have a problem with it

4) You being gay or bi (if you are)? They are fully accepting of me being a lesbian

5) You watching porn? I don't watch it but if I did I doubt my mum would care

6) You asking for specific techniques to pleasure your partner? I have never asked but I imagine my mum would be okay with it

7) You sexting or sharing pics? My parents don't know I have sexted but I think if they did they would warn me to be careful about who I sent the photos to

8) You asking them to get sex toys? My mum has bought me sex toys before

9) You asking a friend or partner to sleep over? I do this all the time and my parents are fine with it

10) You having sex with someone significantly older? It would depend on the circumstances but I don't think they'd be completely against it

[Living For Love]

This thread has already gone off-topic and is not puberty related anyway. :locked: