Telling friends or not

[Hessy_323]

Ok, shortest way to put this. I believe and have had a strong feeling for a while that I am bisexual. Well how should I tell my friends, or should I not tell them at all.

Just would like some other people's input.

I'm super nervous and confused...

[Elysium]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality & Gender

[Hudor]

You got to check first whether they are okay with homosexuality. Initiate some discussion related to the lgbt and see how they react. If they're okay with it, you could mention some time casually in a conversation that you're bi. Or as i do, you could tell them personally.

[Vermilion]

Ok, shortest way to put this. I believe and have had a strong feeling for a while that I am bisexual. Well how should I tell my friends, or should I not tell them at all.

Just would like some other people's input.

I'm super nervous and confused...


If you trust then tell them. That's what I did. And we have spoke more about it I later told them I'm kinda only into guys to witch they were shocked but ok with it

[fandom_king]

Don't be worried. Tell them if you want to. If someone starts to bully you or something, then they weren't your friend in the first place.

[Bull]

Just my opinion, don't tell. Rather live your life and it will become apparent. If asked give honest answer, but you need not make an announcement. Just be you.

[ska8er]

Don't tell-some may not think it is cool.

[Bluebyrd]

Just my opinion, don't tell. Rather live your life and it will become apparent. If asked give honest answer, but you need not make an announcement. Just be you.

Exact advice I would give and what I always do give on here. I'm gay and this is what I do.

[Zachary G]

Ok, shortest way to put this. I believe and have had a strong feeling for a while that I am bisexual. Well how should I tell my friends, or should I not tell them at all.

Just would like some other people's input.

I'm super nervous and confused...

I really dont see why it's that you need to tell them anything about your sexuality, its more of a personal thing. Its one thing if it comes up in conversation, but I really dont see the need to make it known like that. I can understand your parents and family, but friends I dont see it as a necessity.

[Laffytaffu321]

I told my friends that get what bi-sexual means about how I am bi-sexual. They seem fine with it and now if I notice something about a guy like if he is sexually attractive they seem fine with it.

[Sean4U]

I told a few friends that I was gay when I was 13 when I first realized my sexuality. Actually I told my older brother first and he said a lot like Billy did above that if I live my life the way I want it would become apparent. However, test the waters. I told my best friend (who I had a crush on at the time) and was afraid I lost him at first as a friend. A few days later he talked to me said he knew I was gay but hearing it was a shock. He has been fine with it and we have even double dated (he's straight so it was an unusual DD).

Be yourself and others will respect that from you.

[Magenta]

If you don't think it's safe or that you're comfortable just yet, you're under no obligation to tell anyone. Who you like is your business. The only time anyone begins to find out is once you start getting into dating and more public appearances with your partner.

But if you want to try telling a friend, think of one that you've told personal things before. They're probably the best place to start.

[heresjohnny]

Yeah... you don't have to tell anyone anything, especially if you're not sure they'd like it.

But if they don't, THAT'S THEIR PROBLEM!!!