Maybe it's me, not them

[Not Matt Damon]

Hello internet strangers!



It's almost 10 p.m now and I just want to share how sad, angry, depressed, and pissed off I am today. I turned 18 today! Yes. 2 days ago I told myself to don't expect too much on my birthday and I was right!

I've gone through this day thanking my parents, some family members, and some people that I know for the best wishes for me. Then I just started to realise NONE of my close friends (at least I thought they were) even said anything.

I am an easy going person. Don't get me wrong, I don't want to beg people to say happy birthday or anything, but this case I just don't feel any respect from them for once, just on my special day. Not once.

Maybe I don't deserve to have friends in this life. I'll die as a loner anyway.



Sorry I just wanted to say my feelings to someone but instead I came here to post this. I hope you have a wonderful day beautiful people!

[Hudor]

Happy birthday! :hug:

I'm sorry that happened to you. It's a shitty feeling when no one wishes you on your special day.
How i deal with stuff like this is that i have stopped harbouring any expectations from them. If they wish or give me a gift or anything, I thank them and think it's sweet of them. If they forget or don't wish for whatever reason, i don't mind. As soon as you get that "should have done that for at least such and such" out of your mind, relationships become a lot easier for you. I'm not saying become indifferent to them but try not to feel bad about such things because down the road, whenever you have expectations it brings along disappointments. Heck, personally i barely live up to my own expectations so i can't really expect others to do that for me.

[KeeganW]

Happy Birthday!!!!

[Not Matt Damon]

Happy birthday! :hug:

I'm sorry that happened to you. It's a shitty feeling when no one wishes you on your special day.
How i deal with stuff like this is that i have stopped harbouring any expectations from them. If they wish or give me a gift or anything, I thank them and think it's sweet of them. If they forget or don't wish for whatever reason, i don't mind. As soon as you get that "should have done that for at least such and such" out of your mind, relationships become a lot easier for you. I'm not saying become indifferent to them but try not to feel bad about such things because down the road, whenever you have expectations it brings along disappointments. Heck, personally i barely live up to my own expectations so i can't really expect others to do that for me.
Sometimes I wonder if I'm that bad person who people don't like to be friends with, then I realise that only those who can accept you at your best and also at your worst, and those who stay no matter what happen are the ones deserve to be called a friend. And I know I haven't found anyone like that yet. Who knows what the future holds ay? I just started my adult life now that I'm 18 and I should take care of things the adult way lol.


Nice talking to you Hudor. And thank you for reading and replying to this crap post. Have a wonderful day.

Happy Birthday!!!!
Thank you KeeganW!

[Hudor]

Sometimes I wonder if I'm that bad person who people don't like to be friends with, then I realise that only those who can accept you at your best and also at your worst, and those who stay no matter what happen are the ones deserve to be called a friend. And I know I haven't found anyone like that yet. Who knows what the future holds ay? I just started my adult life now that I'm 18 and I should take care of things the adult way lol.

Nice talking to you Hudor. And thank you for reading and replying to this crap post. Have a wonderful day.

Great. That's somewhat why i don't consider a lot of people "friends". I have my circles divided and most people just fill up the acquaintances circle.
You're welcome :)