Neelness
December 2nd, 2015, 10:17 PM
Its not exactly common but not rare for a few years older girl to date a guy where I live. Most people are conservative but the current teenage generations aren't as much.
So I thought of talking to this random pretty girl (my omly intentions were sexual) in a certain class because I was sick of myself being such a pussy all the time. I just started out a typical conversation which went pretty smoothly. I didnt know how old she was but I just assumed that she went to highschool like me. I later got her number and her full name. After I left class (5:30pm) I added her on facebook and we were chatting normally for a while at around 6:40pm . Later I called her and talked to her normally for about 6min (8pm).
I later got a text from her saying:
-(9:00pm) "Im two years older than you. Are you going to call me apu? (Apu= a polite reference to older females. Similiar to Ma'am.)
-(9:10pm) I replied "Haha, well you gotta call a lawer first."---(9:20pm) She replied "My friend is going to be a lawyer just so you know. :p
-(9:21pm) I replied "Lol"
-(10:04pm) She sent "What are you doing now?"
-(11:00pm) I wrote "At a friends house. You?"
-(11:05pm) She wrote "Watching a show"
-( 11:06pm) Me "Which one?"
-( 11:07pm) Her "show name. Arent you going home? When are you going to sleep?"
-( 11:14pm) me "going soon. doing something then sleeping later"
I then fell asleep and woke up at 8am and saw notifications:
*a text from 11:40 -"What are you doing?"
*then a missed call at 12;30
*and another text from.12:40- Are you asleep?
Now its 9am as im writing this.
Its only been a day and shes obviously interested in me but I woke up now and i've been feeling weird since I never had any relationships or similiar experiences. And even more weird since shes 2 1/2 years older than me and goes to university. Should I continue this or should I friendzone and use the same courage to talk to a girl my own age in the same state as I am? (As I said, my intentions were primarily of sexual intensions or just an experience. I dont want to be in a serious relationship and I dont want her to fall for me in a relationship type of way.)
So I thought of talking to this random pretty girl (my omly intentions were sexual) in a certain class because I was sick of myself being such a pussy all the time. I just started out a typical conversation which went pretty smoothly. I didnt know how old she was but I just assumed that she went to highschool like me. I later got her number and her full name. After I left class (5:30pm) I added her on facebook and we were chatting normally for a while at around 6:40pm . Later I called her and talked to her normally for about 6min (8pm).
I later got a text from her saying:
-(9:00pm) "Im two years older than you. Are you going to call me apu? (Apu= a polite reference to older females. Similiar to Ma'am.)
-(9:10pm) I replied "Haha, well you gotta call a lawer first."---(9:20pm) She replied "My friend is going to be a lawyer just so you know. :p
-(9:21pm) I replied "Lol"
-(10:04pm) She sent "What are you doing now?"
-(11:00pm) I wrote "At a friends house. You?"
-(11:05pm) She wrote "Watching a show"
-( 11:06pm) Me "Which one?"
-( 11:07pm) Her "show name. Arent you going home? When are you going to sleep?"
-( 11:14pm) me "going soon. doing something then sleeping later"
I then fell asleep and woke up at 8am and saw notifications:
*a text from 11:40 -"What are you doing?"
*then a missed call at 12;30
*and another text from.12:40- Are you asleep?
Now its 9am as im writing this.
Its only been a day and shes obviously interested in me but I woke up now and i've been feeling weird since I never had any relationships or similiar experiences. And even more weird since shes 2 1/2 years older than me and goes to university. Should I continue this or should I friendzone and use the same courage to talk to a girl my own age in the same state as I am? (As I said, my intentions were primarily of sexual intensions or just an experience. I dont want to be in a serious relationship and I dont want her to fall for me in a relationship type of way.)