How would you define lesbian sex?

[LanaPole]

Hi! Ive seen some of you posting about having sex with girls. Im curious how would you define sex with a girl. I dont think masturbating with a girl counts as sex. i just dont know. i think im quite straight, not lesbian or anything, just curious. What counts as lesbian sex? Can you lose your virginity to a girl? theres no penetration. how would you define it? id like to hear your opinions. no story telling please. thats against vt rules.

[LITTLEANGEL19]

I would say its a physical expression of love between two people, almost the same as between a female and male except for the penis part, but of course there's always oral sex.

[sweettayla]

Sex between lesbians????

[Vanilla Cupcake]

Me and my best friend licked each other's clits one time. It was her idea not mine. We were 10 years old. I didn't like hers because it smelled like pee. It felt good, but I never did it again, I don't like . So I know I'm not a lesbian. I think if I kept doing it, then I would be a lesbian.

[angelina]

Hi! Ive seen some of you posting about having sex with girls. Im curious how would you define sex with a girl. I dont think masturbating with a girl counts as sex. i just dont know. i think im quite straight, not lesbian or anything, just curious. What counts as lesbian sex? Can you lose your virginity to a girl? theres no penetration. how would you define it? id like to hear your opinions. no story telling please. thats against vt rules.

It is a sexual expression between 2 girls to show their love for each other.It is gradually accepted World wide.So nothing is strange about it. A true lesb will not be in need of a male partner. They will act as a normal male and female pair. They have no fear about baby and losing of their virginity.

[Princess Ariel]

Everyone has their own definition of "lesbian sex", so I can't really give you the answer point blank. Some people might define it when a woman has an orgasm, another only if it involves oral.

As a lesbian myself, I define it as if I am touching another womans clit (orally, or stimulating with my hand) for the intent of giving my partner orgasm.

[Magenta]

Yes, you can lose your virginity to a girl. Also, saying there's no penetration is not always true. Some women like oral, some like penetration using the hands, some use toys, some just use outer stimulation... essentially, there's no difference between straight and lesbian sex except the lack of a penis (and in some cases, there are things called strap-ons if your partner is into that).

And considering the number of women who DON'T orgasm during penis-in-vagina sex, I wouldn't call an orgasm the defining feature either, though some people might. I mean, people define straight sex as PIV (see above, penis/vagina). But there's foreplay which is essentially part of the sex itself. Any sexual act with a partner counts as sex. Hence it being, y'know, sexual. If you say you're having sex, you're having sex. Doesn't really matter if you're gay, lesbian, straight, or whatever.

Also masturbation is defined as self-stimulation in a sexual manner. So masturbating with another girl technically would just be masturbating with another girl nearby. Masturbation does not include the participation of another person. You wouldn't call a woman touching herself during PIV sex masturbation, so lesbian sex, regardless of the lack of PIV, would not be considered masturbation.

[angelina]

Me and my best friend licked each other's clits one time. It was her idea not mine. We were 10 years old. I didn't like hers because it smelled like pee. It felt good, but I never did it again, I don't like . So I know I'm not a lesbian. I think if I kept doing it, then I would be a lesbian.

Every thing went in a right way..but one thing you forgot to do..
Both of you should have washed of your privates before you start those things to avoid the smell if yo feel so

[Vanilla Cupcake]

Every thing went in a right way..but one thing you forgot to do..
Both of you should have washed of your privates before you start those things to avoid the smell if yo feel so

Yes we should have but we didn't think of that at the time, it never occurred to us at all. It was spur of the moment thing.

[Abbeys]

Yes we should have but we didn't think of that at the time, it never occurred to us at all. It was spur of the moment thing.

That's what I thought happened,it was more of a spontaneous thing than planned.

Could always try it again.

:)

[Vanilla Cupcake]

That's what I thought happened,it was more of a spontaneous thing than planned.

Could always try it again.

:)

Ewwwww nope, I'm scarred for life!

[ClaraWho]

Who cares? Life's too short to bother with meaningless labels, and besides, it's not usually for anyone outside the couple to care/know about?

I don't bother defining it because it is irrelevant to define it.

~ Clara

[SkyClad33605]

I think that physical intimacy is whatever you want it to be and you shouldn't get tangled up by definitions. Virginity is really an outdated idea that was just there for husbands to make sure their future wives weren't doing things with other people. It's from the time when women were property.

I think that people should express their affections and desires however they like, consensual, and not be bothered with what little tab it falls into.

[angelina]

I think that physical intimacy is whatever you want it to be and you shouldn't get tangled up by definitions. Virginity is really an outdated idea that was just there for husbands to make sure their future wives weren't doing things with other people. It's from the time when women were property. .

Good post...that means men or boys want to exploit the physical status of the girls? as we girls are helpless . We are not talking about or probing in to a man's virginity...they will just wash and go..No justification at all. where as virginity is common for both sexes.

[Living For Love]

This thread has gone too sexual. :locked: